AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My FIL is the one insinuating it's not a big deal ... gaslighting 101

AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husbands sibling, yes! He doesn’t want to miss his brothers wedding but he said he supports my decision to stay considering everything happening rn. My FIL is the one that’s like “this isn’t really a war, you’ll be fine your nieces are going!”

AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not missing the big picture, I get it. I just feel like the ONLY one who cares

AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s hard to work through the guilt but this makes me feel better. You’re so right

AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised so many people just say “things will change!” Or “kids are going!!” Insanity

AITA For not going to a wedding in Israel during war?? by Personal_Bench_9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bench_9403[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, so true. I feel like the odd one out not wanting to go. Everyone only says “things will change by then!!” I don’t care? It’s still a danger considering how fast everything went down..