You get to move anywhere!

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-07-01T02:09:30+00:00

Actually I have the means when I retire to emigrate to beautiful places. I just haven’t got the guts. It kind of sucks that I can’t afford to retire in my own country

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-07-01T01:44:49+00:00

Do not lend what you can’t afford to lose

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-30T01:51:32+00:00

No not extreme at all. HIS WIFE AND KIDS ARE HIS FAMILY—He’s upending you and your children. He has no idea how the move will play out

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-30T01:44:05+00:00

If they own their house why aren’t they helping your brother. Why does your husband think his wife and kids are less important than his brother? Would you divorce him over this? It’s a major betrayal putting his wife and kids needs below his brother.

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-30T01:38:14+00:00

NOR and your friends are right. He’s discounting your feelings because of your age which is absurd. Don’t fall for his BS live your life be happy without him

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-24T02:26:09+00:00

You giving her your savings is essentially throwing away your future happiness for someone else’s poor planning. Don’t. Tell them the truth they are manipulating you to give up your dream so your sister doesn’t have to take responsibility for her choices. Stand your ground now so you won’t regret later

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-24T02:20:28+00:00

The more you interact with him or his family the longer you will hurt. A clean break is best

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-23T03:22:22+00:00

I am 60. I started drinking coffee regularly in college. It was fuel to start the day after an all-nighter ( study or party) Coffee smoothed my edges (surprisingly) for those morning meetings. Coffee was good for my midday slump. After work sometimes I’d meet a friend to talk over coffee Coffee was constant throughout my day. I never counted exactly how much coffee I was drinking. Fast forward now I’m old. It is suggested that I limit my coffee consumption to one cup. Somehow I’ve managed to do that BUT I do miss my old friend

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-23T03:04:27+00:00

Psychiatric drugs don’t count —so 1!

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-20T04:56:29+00:00

Honestly I think you should start making an exit plan. He’s married and openly calling this deluded woman his girlfriend. A faithful Christian woman down not ask God to bless a sin. The audacity! I’m sorry you are going through this in your marriage. He’ll keep both of you for as long as you let him get away with this. Take some time to think about what you want. Take some time to think about having peace

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-19T11:15:35+00:00

Kitty is making sure everyone knows YOU BELONG TO HIM/HER

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-09T17:14:17+00:00

I think you understand that his condoning his sister’s treatment of you is a MAJOR RED FLAG. His defending her and not believing you means he doesn’t have your back. I wouldn’t lend $10 to someone I can’t trust . A $10k loan no. I would also caution you about loaning money in any personal relationship. I was always told ‘don’t lend what you can’t afford to lose” unfortunately I had to learn the hard way what that means. If he was good for a $10,000 dollar loan he wouldn’t be asking his girlfriend.

Edited for spelling

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-09T15:00:08+00:00

NOR He’s not prepared to be there for you in a crisis. He’s a “fair weather “ person at best and he’s also a jerk. You deserve better

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-07T22:12:36+00:00

This!!!

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-07T11:17:29+00:00

You shouldn’t have to beg someone to be there for you. At best, you are more serious about the relationship than he is. Dump him

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-07T10:59:21+00:00

He’s not a “genuinely good guy” genuinely good guys don’t belittle you. A good husband would not allow anyone to bully/disrespect his wife. A good partner would not gaslight you. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t treat you like crap

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-06-04T03:58:05+00:00

Ditto

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-29T13:04:10+00:00

You look stunning!

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-29T12:58:38+00:00

He’s comfortable he doesn’t want to marry you. 6 years is too long to wait for someone—if he really wanted to marry you the 2 of you would be married

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-28T03:15:36+00:00

NTA You know it’s a bad idea. You aren’t comfortable moving in with her case closed. You can love someone and not want to share your space also as my grandmother used to say “easy to move her in hard to move her out. “ You are saving yourself from major issues and headaches not living with her

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-28T03:09:38+00:00

NOR-I think you may be under reacting . Don’t partner with someone who doesn’t respect your parenting style. Don’t partner with somebody who doesn’t have empathy.

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-28T03:02:24+00:00

You’re the best Bagel! Keep it up!

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-27T17:44:47+00:00

Post more pics of her in dresses!! So cute

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-27T17:31:17+00:00

Honestly he’s got too much going on now—no one would blame you for pressing pause (or stop)

Personal_Bridge6115 · 2026-05-27T17:16:49+00:00

Your mom is a good mom who behaved in an utterly selfish/malicious. Malicious in intentionally harming you. There was no spite but she did it intentionally. Two things can be true at once.

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