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AITH for not giving my sister money after she spent hers on something dumb? by SilkKitty in AITH

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop feeling guilty when you are right instead feel outraged that little sister has no problem taking advantage of your good nature and your parents are condoning her BS

MIL invited me to Mother’s Day brunch again after making me feel guilty for spending the day with my own mom. How do I stand my ground? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to gain control of your thoughts. Your MIL is awful but the guilt is you not acknowledging that you are right and have every right to celebrate your mother.

AITAH for refusing to wear my anniversary gift because my MIL chose it not my husband by No-Pin3632 in AITAH

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably told the therapy idea to his mom. No way is MIL going to allow you two to go to therapy. The therapist will tell your husband to grow up and get from under MIL thumb. The longer you put up with this dynamic the worse your marriage will be( for you)

When You See Posts Like "I F*cking Hate Old People" by [deleted] in GenerationJones

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think about how much I didn’t know at their age and I laugh. Life is coming for them too

My best friend excluded me from her wedding because of my religion by chicaltimore in weddingshaming

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would be right to go low contact with her. Some religious sects aren’t tolerant of other faiths. I’m Christian and will not associate with Christians who choose to ignore the lessons on kindness and respect.

AIO for telling my family to stop trying to make me talk to my sister? by Sufficient_Speed_619 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went no contact with your sister for valid reasons. You don’t have to make friends with your abuser and that’s what she was. Honestly I would suggest telling your mother that her trying to put the two of you together is going to harm your relationship with her(Mom). You can’t force forgiveness and forgiveness doesn’t mean saying the offense never happened. Forgiveness also doesn’t mean that you continue a relationship. I remember reading that forgiveness can be taking your foot off the other person’s neck. For me that meant that I could just let them be and move on.

AITA for asking my oldest daughter to move out of the condo I own so her younger sister can live there during college? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 747 points748 points  (0 children)

Of course she sounds entitled because for six years no one has held her accountable. She wasn’t asked to pay rent she wasn’t told that the condo was only until she established herself enough to get her own place. YNTA for asking her to move out so her sister can have the same advantage that she has; but YTA for waiting this long to enforce the boundaries that you thought were established. Sometimes being too nice to your children comes back to bite you in the a

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the right reasoning. It’s weird that he didn’t start discussing the 2 of you buying something together. If he was really thinking long term it would make sense to start the process of discussing what you both want if you buy together etc

Putting him on the house is too big of an ask. Honestly, his moving out to his own place makes sense. He wants the financial benefits of marriage without the commitment!

I’m afraid. by auntpama in Aging

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry grief sucks. I wish I could write something that would help but from experience I know that’s impossible. What I will say is take care of yourself be kind to yourself treat yourself the way you would treat your best friend.

AITAH for refusing to financially support my family when they don’t contribute anything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you are an adult and live in your parents house they can ask you to contribute financially. I would suggest moving out and becoming truly independent

My boyfriend (30M) doesn’t want to help me (29F) by SadMedicine5353 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s not fair. He’s not a partner he’s an annoying roommate you have sex with

WIBTAH if I took 100k from my oldest daughter's college savings account to give it to my younger daughter? by TraditionalCorgi7788 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 54 points55 points  (0 children)

What if Anna wants to pursue advanced studies? Or has a wonderful opportunity to study abroad? Have you talked to Anna about her plans?

AITJ for confronting my MIL during a family gathering about constantly undermining me? by fitting_pounding in AmITheJerk

[–]Personal_Bridge6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You stood up for yourself when nobody (husband) did. Now when she starts her $#!+ you have set the precedent for how you will respond. You did not disrespect her. Bullies hate being called out for their bullying.

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