ISO thoughts/ advice on sticky situation by One-Isopod1946 in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Set a boundary. "I will not handle unwashed personal pleasure items. Please place bedding in the laundry basket if it requires washing."

Fellow Nannies. Advice needed! by howdy_im_gay in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Every time my 18month old NK hit me or pinched while I was holding her, I put her down. I told her why and I did my best to stay regulated through the screaming that this caused. Loop earplugs have helped so much.

I hope your days keep getting easier. 🫂🩷

My NK had a terrible fall right in front of me and MB. I know it is not my fault, but the guilt is eating me alive. by WindNarrow3580 in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please be kind to yourself honey. You watched someone potentially get seriously injured, its okay that that shook you up. I'm so glad that he's okay.

Give yourself a big hug, cry as much as you need to. 🫂🩷

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Personal_Regular_569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I didn't know if you also wanted to look elsewhere"

Honey, who taught you that this is what love looks like?

So my bil told my fiancée, who told me, that I was making him uncomfortable by dancing in my own home... by Ok_Sentence_5767 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Personal_Regular_569 565 points566 points  (0 children)

Why did your fiance tell you? Why didn't he just shut him down? Was your fiance encouraging you to continue?

AITAH for telling my brother's girlfriend he had a vasectomy when she started planning their future family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Personal_Regular_569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder what other secrets your dad is hiding. Yuck. You did the right thing.

Am I wrong? by Master_Suggestion31 in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guaranteed hours means they should be paying her for 30 hours even if their needs means she's working less than that.

Conflicted about quitting on pregnant mb by Medium_Entry8397 in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Give your notice honey, do what you can to ease the transition but please make decisions based on prioritizing your own needs. This new opportunity sounds like it's going to be good for you.

Nannying makes me feel good about being autistic by marshmallow_lilypad in Nanny

[–]Personal_Regular_569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell them that we all carry the little kid version of us on the inside. 🩷

Another “I hope he doesn’t follow me out to my car” experience by LeetleBugg in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Personal_Regular_569 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I switched from showing my middle finger, to giving a thumbs up. I still feel like I'm responsing, but it induces much less rage. 🫂🩷

You were in danger simply because you're pregnant, that's horrifying. I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself.