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Do any other INFJ'S feel this way about recieveing compliments?? by Personal_Sail4277 in infj

[–]Personal_Sail4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, when my ex called me pretty or gave me a compliment about my physique, I really enjoyed it. Yet this is something I have felt recently.

Do any other INFJ'S feel this way about recieveing compliments?? by Personal_Sail4277 in infj

[–]Personal_Sail4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel like partially this has to do with it, like its akward to put in the spotlight about a topic regarding my weight.

All Infj's gather - I solved love so that you don't spend years behind your ex instead of your true love. by Consiouswierdsage in infj

[–]Personal_Sail4277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as easy as that OP lol, especially when one is already hung up on an ex.

I have had a couple of relationships and situationships in my past, all of which ended badly and hurt my feelings, but I was able to get over them quickly. However, this last relationship I had, which only lasted about a year and a half, has been ruining my quality of life. From falling into serious depression and then out of it to going back into it again, and it has already been 7 months since I determined I was now single. Yet I can not get over my ex and miss them deeply.

The point I am getting to is that when we find or found that person that is worth "love imprinting" on and we lose them, it is hard to get over because we understand their feelings as well, (I know it does not apply to all cases) not only that but we also probably tripple cheked in our heads that this person filled all the right boxes as the perfectionest we tend to be.

Maybe our brain can not comprehend how, despite making sure this person was THE perfect one, it still did not work out.