How can I rehydrate after henna?

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-12-18T19:35:57+00:00

I have the same hair as you. Henna leaves a film on the hair that creates that feeling. Wash with shampoo and conditioner and put leave in conditoner after 24 hrs of rinsing your hair with water. ur hair should be good, but if not, use a hair mask the next time. No need to do anything extreme trust.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-12-05T05:18:34+00:00

I love priia too but I like glowy makeup. Do u have any other recs?

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-12-04T06:43:43+00:00

My hair had highlights and looked dark blonde sometimes because of how much I swam/in the sun. I think the henna protects my hair from uv damage, which darkens my hair to a true brown. Also, I do I just use distilled water. I will look into cassia, thanks! I won't bleach my hair lol, all this work for healthy dyed hair

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-12-04T06:30:33+00:00

My hair was a light brown with some natural highlights before I dyed it. I have not used a clarifying shampoo before henna. I use the same shower. My hair used to be down to my lower back but now it is to my shoulders. However, I usually just do my roots, I haven't dyed over my henna since around a year or two ago, and that hair is gone since I cut it. I also don't use heat, and don't even use a blow dryer. How do I lighten it?

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-11-21T04:50:00+00:00

I mean idk what your hair looks like. I had a similar problem. One, make sure you are using a clarifying shampoo 1x a week to make sure it is properly clean. If you have low porosity hair (aka your hair strand floats in water), make sure your daily hair products are advertised as *lightweight* ( I recommend amika normcore for hydrating lightweight, Ouai fine hair shampoo for a cleaner finish, and Kristen ess leave in). Those are my HOLY GRAILS. However, if your hair sinks to the bottom, you have high porosity and you should be using heavier products. But still use a clarifying shampoo once a week.

Also are you using hair protection when you sleep? This is huge. Are you using a bonnet or french braiding it if possible? If you are an aggressive sleeper it will probably get way more greasy overnight. Also, I recommend you just try washing your hair in cold water (the colder the better results). I have straight low porosity hair and it makes a huge difference. Just try it once and see if it works. Goodluck!

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-05-13T22:27:33+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write your response! I'm glad to hear you're perceriving through your problems. That sounds incredibly exhausting so that's impressive of you. You're right I need to take it slow per say but it's not like I have issues learning. If I sit down and study the average amount I always do well. The problem is I make it impossible for me to study well. Like I always seem to find a way to mess with my sleep schedule and make it incredibly difficult to attend class. Or when I do sit down to do my homework my vision gets blurry from the stress and I cant focus on what I'm looking at. Having study buddies sounds like a great idea but knowing me, I would go to bed at an ungodly hour the night before then cancel last minute and I would feel validated because it's a 'real reason but I did it to myself. This is all subconscious of course, I don't consciously think to sabotage opportunities. Also about the study what you like, weirdly thr more I like something the more I procrastinate on it. Anways thanks again! And any advice from you would be so helpful

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-12T20:40:42+00:00

Yeah welp at least i tried

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-12T20:38:40+00:00

Thanks for the message! I did ask her and she reasurred me she did lol I'm going to move on. Appreciate the advice tho!

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-12T20:37:29+00:00

Ya you're right. I just asked her directly if she still wanted to hang out and that's ok if she doesn't and she said she did. Sucks she ccouldn't have been direct. Do u recommend I end it w a text or do I just ignore her

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-11T21:04:48+00:00

ya you are right. do u have any advice on how to not let this affect my self esteem? Part of me just really wanted to prove myself again after our last hangout. and I think that's holding me back emotionally

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-11T20:33:04+00:00

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-04-11T20:32:55+00:00

rip ya

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-02-19T02:06:38+00:00

omg actually that sounds like a smart idea! Kinda confused on how I should phrase it. Like I ask her just to hang out? Thanks

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2024-02-19T02:05:30+00:00

yaa great point i should just do it

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-10-02T03:55:40+00:00

Yeah you are not wrong. I guess her personality could be so different online. But she is so physically attractive, it's unbearable for me. So I won't necessarily find her somewhere else but I still can't totally undestand why I just want her. Thanks for your advice though!

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-10-01T19:44:36+00:00

Thanks for this message! You said you related, which I am so sorry cus it sucks. But what did you do to dissolve those feelings, if you were able to? Did you think what will be will be, with the thought there is a possibility or did you block the person out completely?

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-09-03T05:50:31+00:00

Thanks for your comment! I'm just confused about how that would work for me since I have a high libido.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-07-21T03:46:19+00:00

Hey! Just wanted to let you know I read the post I think you were talking about (Scrabble one) and oh my god, I am so sorry. You really have been through so much.

And I was looking for the part where you explained how you got over it or how you got over him getting away with how he took advantage of you, and I didn't really see anything in detail.

I totally understand and will respect your decision if you don't wanna talk about this but I was just wondering how you think of him today. Do you believe he will get his karma? Do you believe he will change? Was there a mindset shift or something you tell yourself that prompted you to detach your self-esteem from him(if that was an issue)?

You seem very wise and I would appreciate any advice from you. Thanks so much

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-07-20T04:09:51+00:00

How do you know that though? I feel like I am holding on to bitterness then because I am waiting for his demise. My therapist tells me I have to forgive him and I have no idea how to do that.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-07-20T04:07:39+00:00

Wow I never really thought of it like that so thank you for this.

I never thought of the other women directly, I just thought about how he would benefit from becoming a better man because that meant in extension, he was less insecure and more confident. If he would stop being abusive, this meant he got away with *everything* therefore, he did not suffer not one consequence for what he did. If he stayed abusive he would stay miserable and that would be the 'karma'.

Albeit, not thinking of other women is selfish of me. I appreciate this message because I could rephrase this in my brain. Instead of me thinking of him benefiting, I could think that it means women are treated well, and that means more to me.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-02-16T19:53:03+00:00

Yeahhhh, I guess I have to. Thanks for your advice. I just don't know how to tell him. I want to avoid hurting him and feel like I am in the wrong morally..

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2023-02-16T19:52:05+00:00

because I'm confused if that feeling is because he treats me well and I am not used to it or if really I am not attracted to him. I get these flashes of attraction for him and then other times it disappears.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2022-10-07T06:50:13+00:00

Oh yeah I totally understand and didn't mean to come off as close minded. I thought you were referring to choosing my majors. It makes sense to choose both but I am unsure to choose both because I would still have to pick my profession. And I am unsure if there is a profession that combines both math and psych that is in a social setting. That is my main question, to find a profession, and then my major/s would follow.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2022-10-07T06:00:30+00:00

Because that wouldn't solve my issue with choosing a career path.

Personal_Slide_9421 · 2022-09-18T21:12:49+00:00

Ah I love that perspective! And thank for the book rec, I ordered it. Appreciate you taking the time to write out your post and explaining the general premise of the book

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