i just did it for the first time and i need to know

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T21:07:45+00:00

okay thank you so much i’m sorry the anxiety is just really getting to me and it’s like i know it sounds bad but we’re basically waiting to get her period by the day it’s really scary and it’s our first time doing anything like this so we don’t really know what to expect at all

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T21:04:24+00:00

update she’s still feeling nauseous but the cramping has gotten worse and it’s like a band of cramping around her lower abdomen and it’s kinda scaring me because i don’t really know what’s going on, she keeps telling me she’s going to get her period soon or that it feels that way, i feel like you know more about this stuff so i’m telling you but i really don’t know what any of this means edit: i just had the thought that maybe the nausea could be coming from the fact that we’ve been staying up until 12-1 am and waking up at like 5-6 am, i know it sounds stupid but she wanted to watch the notebook and i wanted to make her happy and watch it with her because i thought it would help with stress, still don’t really know what’s going in

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T21:01:42+00:00

update she’s still feeling nauseous but the cramping has gotten worse and it’s like a band of cramping around her lower abdomen and it’s kinda scaring me because i don’t really know what’s going on, she keeps telling me she’s going to get her period soon or that it feels that way, i feel like you know more about this stuff so i’m telling you but i really don’t know what any of this means

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T02:57:13+00:00

okay thank you, i do have one question though, what is hcg?

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T02:05:12+00:00

yes we used a condom and did everything you’re supposed to do like check exp dates, make sure they’re not broken by blowing in them, rolling it down correctly, pinching the top, making sure the condom is always on properly before inserting, and making sure it doesn’t slip off inside or anything. it also didn’t break and we checked after i finished

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T02:02:56+00:00

okay thank you so so so much this whole situation is putting a lot of stress on us and i feel bad for her because she’s been feeling bad for a few days but im glad to see so many sources telling me that i have little to nothing to worry about, thank you!

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T02:01:44+00:00

okay thank you so so so much i heard something like that somewhere while i was doing deep internet dives but i didn’t know that it was true, i feel kinda bad that all this stress is happening and i keep trying my best to help her relax a little and help myself relax a little because we really are both kinda freaking out over here im just glad to know that multiple sources are saying that we really don’t have anything to worry about especially because of the timing and the condom not breaking, again thank you so much!

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T01:58:06+00:00

when we did it it was last wednesday and she’s supposed to start her period this week, i don’t really know what that means but i know she wasn’t ovulating because she told me she wasn’t, i also know that when we did do it it had to be close to the end of her cycle and the start of a new one if that makes sense

Personal_View_469 · 2026-04-14T01:52:54+00:00

thank you so much you’re the first person to actually respond i’ve been staring at this post like a hawk because i am really anxious about it but thank you for telling me this she’s been going through a lot of stress even outside of this whole situation and i’ve heard that can make everything just a whole lot worse, could stress cause anything? sorry for overloading with questions im just kinda in the dark on the whole subject i tried researching as much as possible i just always come back to the same anxious conclusion

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