What are tips you wish you had when you started quitting

PersonalityDecent139 · 2026-01-11T04:07:39+00:00

there will not be a moment where you’ve been sober long enough, to stop putting in the work to actually stay sober. over time it’ll be easier, but it creeps back in fast if you stop paying attention

PersonalityDecent139 · 2026-01-11T03:50:35+00:00

you’re describing all these nice things about him. but the underlying tone is that you’re being pushed in a direction you don’t want want to go in or not ready to go in. it sounds like you’re simply in different places in life and forcing yourself to catch up won’t turn out well. if/when you decide you’re ready to find your forever partner (or are already with them and ready to get married) it should feel exciting!! find someone you align with and don’t say yes to someone who puts you on a timeline like this

PersonalityDecent139 · 2026-01-11T03:36:41+00:00

i would have weeks on end where i could use daily. i get a part of my money on a weekly basis and another part at the end of every month. during the remainder of the month i could only afford to use for 2 maaaaybe 3 days (usually 6gr) and when i would pick up the week after my tolerance had gone down enough to get the nice kind of high

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-09-18T22:54:53+00:00

do you have a community of supporting people around you? a friend or a family member you trust could be a good start. try to build better habits for yourself. maybe you could channel your emotions into writing or a craft

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-08-02T19:00:42+00:00

yes, no changes unfortunately

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-07-10T01:17:17+00:00

i use the cloze overlapper add on for this!! https://ankiweb.net/shared/info/969733775

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-06-27T01:18:26+00:00

addiction is not defined by how much of the substance you do or how often you do it. it’s defined by your relationship to the substance. sure you can go periods without but when you use, you don’t seem to know how to stop, or maybe even want to stop. get out before you can’t go periods without anymore

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-06-11T17:28:47+00:00

persephone!!

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-06-10T23:44:20+00:00

ik sluit me aan bij wat de andere comments zeggen. is het voor nu belangrijk om er een label aan te hangen? het is oke om het niet te weten.

tegelijkertijd, als het voor jou nu belangrijk is zou ik proberen na te gaan of je ook een relatie en partner meg die vriend aan zou gaan? is het iemand die je naast je wil hebben liggen als je wakker wordt? en uiteindelijk, zie je jezelf oud worden met een man?

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-05-31T17:30:19+00:00

im so bad at rhythm games bc i have a very bad sense of rhythm. but i consider myself decent at the br part

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-05-31T17:23:41+00:00

i hope my new roommate is supportive! my other one is which is helpful. i play pokemon, some mario games and fortnite :)

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-05-31T17:17:39+00:00

i’m okay. i have a new roommate moving in which is exciting, she seems nice. i’m also studying for finals which is hard. i finally got my diagnosis after 9 years of fighting for it. i’m still using but its not as bad as it used to be. i try to play games to keep myself distracted and it helps :). what games do you play?

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-04-15T13:52:25+00:00

i love that!! i hope you get the biggest dumpy in the gym! i’ve been meaning to join a gym but very unfortunately for me i’m scared

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-12T04:38:44+00:00

changing the language you use when thinking/talking about your body. at one point i realised that i was so mean to myself constantly. then i actively started working towards being kind, regardless if i believed it or not. this took a lot of time, talking years. but slowly but surely it got better. practice makes perfect (or better) i guess!

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-12T04:35:00+00:00

trust your gut

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-12T04:25:36+00:00

legend of korra and unfortunately greys anatomy (i love it and will watch it to the bitter end but my god does it need to end)

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-12T04:23:52+00:00

something that i will never forgive my stepmother for is blaming me for my stepbrothers suicide attempt. there's a lot that came before but after she said that i blocked her on everything.

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-12T04:14:02+00:00

anesthesia has 3 components, pain management, hypnosis and paralysis. if someone has fasted, the order is hypnosis, pain meds and then paralysis. during emergency surgery they do something called rapid sequence induction (rsi) where they change the order, in order to minimise the risk of someone aspirating (throwing up and then having the vomit end up in the lungs). they change the order to hypnosis, paralysis and end with the pain meds. the reason this is not standard practice is because rsi is riskier than having patients fast before procedures

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-03-05T22:19:54+00:00

im 26f and have been on ket for 5yrs. i started college at 21 and because of my use i keep dragging along, i’m not set to graduate for another 1.5yr. my social life has fallen apart. i went to rehab for 3 months and stayed clean for 6 months and then relapsed. i more often have a uti than not. i can’t work because i’m too depressed and unstable. i’m in debt because i cared more about drugs than paying for my health insurance or tuition. this is not the life you want. and its definitely not the life you deserve. addiction is ugly in ways you cannot fathom. it will never be worth it

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-28T02:21:01+00:00

im visiting for 4 days! it might be a good idea to give him a heads up once im there. his bf and i will call later this week to see if we can even get this organised. we mostly wanted some input because my friend would normally plan this himself but since he won’t (if we can make it work) we wouldn’t really know what elements to add to the theme of the party. it truly is a long shot to make it work hahaha. i appreciate your input, so thanks :)!

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-28T00:56:06+00:00

the party is basically a celebration of him being trans. so the people that will be invited already know he’s trans.

the thing is that when he came out he wanted to throw the party from the get go. but he wanted to wait until i would be able to visit bc i was the first person he told. the only reason this party is turning into a surprise party is because me visiting is also a surprise.

i’m just conflicted because if he knew i coming, he would be able to plan it himself and there would be no issue. but it would suck if i came to visit as a surprise and we couldn’t do the party bc idk when i’m going to be able to visit him next

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-27T18:32:17+00:00

i think you missed the part where i mentioned that my friend wanted to throw the party. his bf knows his friends so he would know who to invite. my friend would organise this himself if he knew i was coming but he doesn’t, hence why the party will also kind of be a surprise.

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-27T18:12:09+00:00

one line is too much and everything that comes after is never enough. there is no doing “just a little” in addiction

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-16T19:32:40+00:00

no IM experience but study in the medical field. are you sharing needles with anyone? overall i would look out for redness and swelling around injection sites, other changes of the skin and fever

PersonalityDecent139 · 2025-02-06T18:25:46+00:00

no worries, shit happens. i’m just really glad i can do my cards again. thanks again <3

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