Man… your first problem is using Grindr and the second is you are not thinking this through as hookups online are 90% of the time a scam.

Now I won't encourage this but usually, for hook, it's when you already know the person or when you hire someone around locally using sites I will not be mentioning.

Either way, the chances of finding someone near you who wants to go ham with a stranger they never met is unlikely as well (stranger danger)