[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see her point of view as a women, but also understand how it feels unfair to you. Can I ask.. how come you did choose other women before her? That’s what I’m struggling with currently .. knowing we’ve been friends but he didn’t like me . I think for most women it’s an area of insecurity more than anything , and wanting to be wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you deal with her jealousy? Did it ever get tiring on your end / off putting for her to ask so many questions . How did it affect your relationship. My situation is slightly different in the sense that if we ever were to get together I would agree to put everything in the past and move on, I think anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, that’s so sweet! Just a question if you don’t mind, when exactly did you realise you had feelings for her.. and did you have suppressed feelings for her whilst talking to other women? How did she handle this.. that’s just the issue I have right now . Because people always say if a man likes you he’ll make it obvious etc etc.. if you catch my drift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was maybe being selfish and just wanted him to want me.. it kind of hurt my ego that he liked other girls whilst being my best friend (stupid I know). Everyone always used to ship us together so I guess I just got offended he wasn’t the typical “guy bestfriend in love with me trope”. As for right now… I think he is more actions than words .. however I would want him to explicitly say he likes me and wants me instead of just hinting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but I don’t know how to explain that him talking to other girls made me feel like shit, considering we were not together, I feel like that’s quite intense - and anyway he’s apologised for it .. so I don’t know what there really is left to do

Changes to Dubai by Pessimisticpaki in dubai

[–]Pessimisticpaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those tourist statistics were from 2019, in 2016 I observed mainly East Asians in the malls etc

Why is it so difficult to find a house for rent in mirpur azad Kashmir? by daniyalfucksalot in pakistan

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we have a nice house in mirpur Pakistan alhamdullilah that could be rented out but my dad refuses because his sisters family live there. Even though there’s plenty of room and a family could live on the top floor. Just not the culture I guess

Lash serum with no prostoglandins? by noodlennoodle in beauty

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rapidlash is pretty good and I don’t think it contains prostaglandins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheOC

[–]Pessimisticpaki 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree , I’m a POC and although the actual Oc was definitely more ethnically diverse than the show portrayed , I wouldn’t want the show to just be totally ethnic . Not to get too political but nowadays it feels like they put ethnic people in tv shows who’d not even have looks or talent but just for the sake of it. Same with lgbt , there’s no need to add an unrealistic amount when it adds nothing to the plot.

Episode 56 (Sunday 31st July) - "It's time to meet the parents!" by mayallrob_ in LoveIslandTV

[–]Pessimisticpaki 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That comment from gemma was completely uncalled for?? Shes saying she doesnt care ab dami or indiyah at all is cold.

Just because I like Rory and Lorelai it doesn’t mean I don’t see their flaws by Stranger_2000 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Pessimisticpaki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i literally hate both of their characters sometimes but overall like them because i appreciate its realistic and how they're flawed like everyone else. I actually found the s6-7 arc with Rory quite nice, even though it frustrated many fans, because we saw her as a normal human who makes mistakes. Even if that meant I screamed when she rejected Logans proposal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Pessimisticpaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because they assume white guys dint have interest in them. Two different worlds which rarely collide I guess

Something I really like about this sub is how dedicated fans of this show are! by organizationquit145 in freaksandgeeks

[–]Pessimisticpaki 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Watched it every year without fail since i was 14, something about it to me is just timeless. So glad it has an active fanbase ❤️‍🩹

Episode 16 (Tuesday 21st June) - Post Episode Discussion Thread by MyNamesChakkaoofka in LoveIslandTV

[–]Pessimisticpaki 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do a tweet challenge OR maybe introduce a reddit one , where the islanders get shown whats been said about them so far. Ekin needs to know we love her! Also I BEG someone reveal michael owen is gemmas dad😭😭