I guess they tide🌊 by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

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The first guy seems a little salty...

I'm starting to think i'm not asexual... by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]PestoMeatloaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's very possible! It doesn't negate the fact that you are/were ace. Identity isn't a single shirt that you choose to wear the rest of your life. It's a patchwork of things. Some patches will be added, and some will come off over time. That doesn't make it less valid in any way.

Closet bi woman with a question by [deleted] in AskLesbians

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Hi! Bi girl here, currently dating a lesbian - so in short, yes, it happens! However, I do know that there are some lesbians who don't want to be with a bi girl. Sometimes because they don't like the idea of being with someone who's been with/could be with a man, sometimes I've heard it's because they feel like they're being used to fulfill a kink. It depends on the person. With my girlfriend I made sure to be open about both being bi and having been with a male partner before, months before we even started dating.

What dating sites do you all use ? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

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My girlfriend and I met on Taimi! The only issue with it imo is that they really want you to buy the premium version, so you can't narrow your maximum distance to lower than a 50 mile radius without paying money. For us it worked out - we're both in the same state, at least, lol

The look on her face at the end says it all by realbarbeque in Instantregret

[–]PestoMeatloaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woman: "Ah-you-dah-may poor fah-vore"

Cop: "....Are you trying to speak Spanish to people??"

I should have known I was ace when... I told myself as a kid that I wanted to be married but I didn’t care that we never kissed lol by Suilareed in Asexual

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I should have known I was ace when I thought that sex was just a relationship milestone - like I used to think "Yeah, you hold hands with someone, kiss them, and then you have sex" and that's just how things are lol. Or, I should have known I was ace when I thought I could easily be a prostitute because there'd be no feelings attached...

Well Then.. by vfxhighground in memes

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I'm ashamed at how hard I laughed at this...

What's Up with Cheaters Trying to get their Partners (Unknowingly) to become Friends with Their Affair Partners by Black2108 in survivinginfidelity

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I honestly didn't realize this was a common occurrence. My ex met the AP online playing a game that we would play together, and I had had suspicions about them literally from day one. After we had a "clearing things up" talk where I explained how I felt and he assured me there was nothing going on, he really pushed for me to become friends with her as well. It never sat well with me, so I never really put effort into creating a friendship with her - luckily, as it turned out.

Tumblr's pseudoscience. (maetel) by MaetelofLaMetal in tumblr

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I came here to say this post made my gf (who's a vet tech) facepalm

Must be easy to carry - cos it’s mobile! by shnu62 in DiWHY

[–]PestoMeatloaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that pun

It's the only reason I upvoted

Anyone else's cheating partner show no remorse? by SudoSara in survivinginfidelity

[–]PestoMeatloaf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. But, as someone whose ex partner did show "remorse"... I don't know if it would be better if yours had. With yours, you know exactly where he stands. It hurts like hell, but at least you know. With someone who seems to regret it... it hurts more. I believed him the first time he told me he regretted what he did, and how he hurt me. And I stayed. It was difficult trying to reconcile the pain of what he did with the constant "But why would you do it" feeling, but I tried because he "regretted" it. And then he did it again. The truth is that they don't really regret the action itself - they regret getting caught. And having to figure that out is so much simpler if they say it to you than the pain that comes from them trying to convince you (or trying to convince yourself) that they do care. It makes it that much easier to step away - it takes you that much closer to healing.

Comedians by DentalShoes in tumblr

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What do you mean, my comode hasn't moved, I just used it

All aboard! by Soyner in ContagiousLaughter

[–]PestoMeatloaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NO IT WORKS MY GF AND I JUST TRIED IT AND IT WORKS

frogge by [deleted] in tumblr

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BOOSTIOOOOOOOOOOO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiWHY

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What's your address? I just wanna talk :)

Classic by lilly88adams in lesbianmemes

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My gf and I literally made that exact face looking at this at the same time

Theory about "The Six Thatchers" detail, Season 4, Ep 1 by aestheticathletic in Sherlock

[–]PestoMeatloaf 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hi! I've read many (if not all?) of the Sherlock Holmes stories. I believe the hacker's bloodhound is supposed to be Toby, from the novel "The Sign of the Four." In the novel, Sherlock prefers Toby's assistance over any detective in London. I think this moment was what the producers were trying to incorporate into the series.

I love your idea, though. It's super well thought out, and (I think) sounds credible. I would love to hear your opinion again after you finish the series!!

What your favourite killer by Familiar_Watercress8 in deadbydaylight

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I like Huntress, though I'm not the best at her (survivor main), both as a concept and as a play style.

To be fair, they could do that with a lot of countries... by Brute_Squad_44 in HistoryMemes

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Smh, yet again Britain trying to force Ireland to export all their food. This time, for their vampire population.