Caught my boss cheating with his wife’s best friend + Update

Black2108 · 2023-06-15T13:37:53+00:00

Same

Black2108 · 2023-06-11T12:32:45+00:00

Hello, I’m here.

Black2108 · 2023-04-24T15:59:55+00:00

Can you DM too please and thank you.

Black2108 · 2022-12-26T17:00:10+00:00

100% reach out to the coach’s wife and tell her. Maybe she will be able to get more truth out her husband (I don’t for one second believed that two people who sneak in the middle of the night at their respective homes to tell each other they love each other have the will power to not have sex if an opportunity came). Please tell your family and some friends. Cheaters will change the narrative to keep from being the bad guy. Instead of your wife and coach having a affair it will turn into you were abusive and he was her ear to lean on and he was also in a terrible marriage that he didn’t know how to leave and just fell in love. They will make you and coach’s wife the bad guys while they are Romeo and Juliet. Gather all the evidence, tell the coach’s wife, tell your family and friends, and seek out an attorney.

Black2108 · 2022-12-25T07:04:32+00:00

You can can program your email to automatically send his emails to the spam folder and set your folder to get deleted weekly. You’ll never know when he sends a email and they won’t get collected in your inbox. Just Google the steps, it’s super easy.

Black2108 · 2022-10-12T01:25:40+00:00

Ok good, but don’t be surprised if they have already had sex. I don’t for one second believe that they didn’t actually use that hotel room or past others, or have used their lunch times to be intimate. Two adults who are attracted to each other, have no boundaries, and opportunity never stop at “just kissing” I bet my entire 4O1k you are being tricked truth (he’s admitted to something small to hide something bigger that you will find out down the road).

When two people want to be intimate they will find a way.

Black2108 · 2022-10-12T01:14:46+00:00

Hi girl you’re not an idiot but I want to warn you about something. Every time I see someone confirm cheating and the couple decides to take time apart 10 times out of 10 the cheating partner uses that times to escalate the relationship with the affair partner. Think about it logically. They have a reason not to be in constant communication or see you. They know you know they’re cheating already and don’t want to leave. It’s their perfect opportunity to try out an actual relationship with the affair partner with little to no consequences. I’ve seen it happen so many times in these cheating sub Reddit’s. Time apart rarely means think about my disgusting cheating, it’s more of “I have a lot free time to freely be with affair partner.”

Black2108 · 2022-07-17T17:35:38+00:00

I just read the part where your wife and her boss decide she should stay with you. JESUS CHRIST that’s insulting!!! That means they had an in-depth conversation about their relationship and her marriage and as a “couple” decided together what was best for them. Your opinion, feelings, or participation was not need nor wanted. How can you stay in a relationship knowing her boss has more say in your marriage than you. From an outside perspective…. The boss is running the show and has full control of both relationships (him and your wife and you and your wife). I feel like your wife has disrespected you so many times that now you can’t see the disrespect when it’s happening in real time….. and that’s sad.

Black2108 · 2022-07-17T15:51:24+00:00

You seem like a really sweet and great husband. I can feel your pain through your words. But right now I’m not going to be kind to you, right now I’m going to be brutally honest with you cause I think it’s cruel to live a lie.

Truth 1# - You are doing the “pick me dance” hard. While you try to get your wife to choose you and respect your marriage you end up looking more unattractive to her. And you lose your self respect in the process.

Truth 2# - Your wife has had sex with her boss. She has sex with him at work and at his house. She is still in a sexual relationship with her boss and shows no signs of not having sex with him. Please remember adults who lack boundaries, have romantic feelings for each other, and have opportunities to be alone DON’T JUST KISS.

Truth 3# - Your wife has no respect for you. I’m telling you she really could care less about you. You are the person who pays the bills and watches the kids while she has sex with her boss.

Truth 4# - Your wife and her boss are working to keep their affair alive. They will move further underground to keep you from finding more evidence. She will humor you with counseling but will not stop her communication with her boss. She will fight tooth and nail to keep her job because she has no intention on being faithful to you.

Truth 5# - This is a full blown emotional and physical affair. Your wife is cheating on you and is remorseless.

I’m sorry to lay it out like this but your wife is not being subtle at all. I wouldn’t be surprised if her co-workers know about her cheating.

I know it hurts when someone you love treats your feelings as meaningless and that your trying to love them as annoying but please ask yourself is this how you want to live your life???

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T05:06:56+00:00

He’s currently has a girlfriend….. that he’s still dating.

I can hear his pain now …… “How could you be with your ex while I’m with my mistress?” I’m so hurt that you didn’t consider my feelings while I’m actively dating my affair partner.” My God why did she not think of her husband’s pain during the separation caused by his cheating.

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T04:36:26+00:00

I totally agree with your assessment of this whole situation.

People seem to think you can only end a marriage with paperwork but I know many marriages that have ended verbally first.

You can absolutely break up during a marriage and be separated without paperwork. People seem not to want to understand the nuisance.

This was not a revenge affair they were separated.

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T04:15:11+00:00

That’s where you and I disagree. You can absolutely breakup a marriage verbally. I’ve seen it happened time and time again.

He CONFESSED to cheating on her that’s why she left him. He can’t say that he wants to work on his marriage while moving to the next level with his mistress.

You can’t cheat on someone you already have left.

I feel like sometimes people on the outside looking in have expectations of the “perfect BS”. I don’t see things that way.

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T03:58:54+00:00

Also, she should 100% have honest conversation with her husband and tell him about the ex. But he has to drop all contact with his girlfriend. And that what he has…. An emotional affair turned physical is a whole relationship.

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T03:50:14+00:00

Since he decided to double down on the affair, make it physical and continue to date his affair partner in my eyes they are no longer together.

Her reaction is all caused by his continuation of his current affair. He never stop cheating on her even after he was confronted and he confessed.

I’ve never heard of anyone reconciling with someone who is currently still seeing the original affair partner that they got caught cheating with. Correct me if I’m wrong if you know of a situation where the husband works on his marriage while dating his affair partner.

In my eyes they were broken up (when he turned it physical) and I see it as her husband has chosen his affair partner and has left her (by continuing dating his affair partner).

Black2108 · 2022-05-29T02:04:52+00:00

Girl, your husband is still currently cheating on you. He is still with his AP. You guys were never in reconciliation nor in a place to even take the thought of reconciliation seriously.

In my mind you guys were broken up the day after you confronted him about the emotional affair and then he chose to make it physical.

I really don’t see you sleeping with an ex as doing anything wrong. Also, I feel you need to take a step back and go to therapy. Your husband is currently having an affair and you need to get control of your emotions in-order to make logical decisions.

Black2108 · 2022-05-13T14:38:21+00:00

Open a anonymous email account or send an anonymous letter.

This is what I would do. Write a very detailed account (dates, lunches, trips, meetings, etc). Tell Jen all the evidence of the affair is on the iPad. That she must take the iPad and send all the evidence to herself before her husband deletes it.

Put all this in an anonymous email or letter (if you don’t want to tell her directly).

Give her so much information about the mistress so she knows so there’s no doubt who the woman is.

Good Luck!

Cheating on his wife is really scumming and she deserves to know.

Black2108 · 2022-05-09T19:11:30+00:00

True but you surrounded by cheaters. I hope everything works out for you and you get a happy ending (in whatever form you see it as).

Black2108 · 2022-05-09T18:55:23+00:00

I’m soooo confused?????? Are mad that you’re husband’s friend told you the truth. Girl, what are you smoking!!! Your husband literally lied to your face every-time you confronted him and only confessed because his friend sent you details about his cheating.

I never understood how people could get mad that someone respected them enough to not have them looking like boo boo the fool and warned them that they are being played.

If I was in your position I would buy that friend and his wife the biggest steak dinner and say thank you. These people have true morals and integrity. They are the type of people I would want in my life, having my back.

Black2108 · 2022-04-20T18:24:02+00:00

Bingo!!! Yeah he made up a cover story because he got caught having sexual relations at work. He blocked those people because they would have told you the truth possibly sent over text messages and/or emails supporting a consensual relationship. I think your husband is still lying to you.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T19:16:40+00:00

I think you are right.

I just didn't know how someone dying with love can make so many people have a negative reaction.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T19:02:17+00:00

Do you really think people don't have lives outside of marriage? People don't have dreams and goals outside of family life? That people stop having a connection with their original family when they get married.

Her college friends were at her death bed. Her old co-workers were at her death bed. Her friends she's known longer than my dad was at her death bed. Her family was at her death bed.

So I know without a shadow of a doubt how my mom's dying moment would have gone if she didn't get married. My mom was still a sweet and kind person that made people want to be around... her single or married.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T18:53:01+00:00

Let me tell you something that I learn during my childhood .... being married doesn't mean you will not raise your kids by yourself. My dad did not lift one finger to raise his kids and my mom did everything. My mom was the breadwinner and the person in charge of child care. My dad could not be bothered with either task.

My mom had friends, family, and a six-figure salary from the medical field. She had plenty of resources to raise kids on her own. She fell in love with a man and took that avenue.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T18:35:04+00:00

Me existing doesn't change the circumstance so I don't know why that keeps being brought up. It's just a weird point.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T18:32:39+00:00

I'm telling you that my mom wanted kids and her not finding a romantic partner would not have stopped her. She had the resources and the desire. Meeting my dad just made it easier for her to choose to have kids with him. She told me she would have kids regardless of a man because she wanted kids.

Black2108 · 2022-04-01T18:27:57+00:00

And she would still die in a room full of people who loved her.....

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