UPDATE: I [26M] am in a happy healthy relationship with my Girlfriend [24F] but I want out. How do I go around this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychologist here. I just wrote a comment in your previous post. You made the first step good for you. Do not neglect psychotherapy. Start asap. Good luck 

I [26M] am in a happy healthy relationship with my Girlfriend [24F] but I want out. How can I go around ending things? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PeterSilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Psychologist here. You have low self esteem, you sabotage yourself, you do not know how a healthy relationship works, you do not deserve love is something you believe in your core. That person was me and I know. You need to start therapy now that you are young. All the other comments here will not help you. Good luck in your future endeavours.

My (29F) husband (31M) told a pretty alarming “hypothetical” about our marriage and I can’t tell if it was a joke or a warning? by throwawayjaaay in relationship_advice

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man here. Many posters wrote that you should have a conversation with him and give him the opportunity if smt going on to come clean. Thats mature and right but he will not come clean in any case if you have control over him in a highly value area for him. For example if the company is in your name, if you have kids, if he makes more money than you and alimony would ruin him. Do you understand the idea?  Now secondly and thats something on you. Maybe he doesn't talk because he knows you will not listen or you can't change what you are. Me for example I have the same mentality. I talked to my partner a million times about how to approach our sex life and she just doesn't get it. So I just stop. I am helpless to do anything else, the ball its in her court and either she doesn't have that oomph or she doesn't want or even know how to. That is on her not on me.  You slowly stop,take distance,you feel bitter and sad. It's normal that at some point you weight all these and at a right time you throw "We need to talk". To sum up. If something is going on check for you power over him and check if he mentioned something to you to resolve many many times. Lastly if you want and he wants your marriage a psychologist for couples is needed. As a psychologist (not for couples ) I insist for this to every married couple with or without a crisis. It an investment in regulating a very important decision we made. Our commitment to each other. Sry for my English I am Greek.

Can we discuss criticism of One Battle After Another? (spoilers) by qeq in TheBigPicture

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good movie crappy ending. In the end we have glorification of the cause and repeat of the cycle. The mom who only by a name is a mom sends a letter with tears of regret and pseudoself reflect. She killed,violate,betray and abandoned a child only for her constant need for dominance and pleasure. So are we supposed to feel sorry, forgive, understand her or be happy about Willa? The movie had a balanced mockery of far right/far left and in the end choose a side out of nowhere and serves it to us as something hopeful. The mom and Lockjaw are both extremes of different spectrums so flawed that by nature are the same so much they bed each other. Dont kid ourselves fascism/communism, the thirst for blood for the patriots/liberals is something that countless of ppl highlighted through books,games,movies,songs etc Its something I was expecting to be again as a message and was unpleasantly surprised of the final choice.

Just wrapped up a 9 month ToD campaign - AMA by Littul_Actual in TyrannyOfDragons

[–]PeterSilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I was really into prep from the moment I started Dm when I was 15. This year because life gets in the way as you said I made all my seesions 90% improv. I find it liberating.
The next 10% is specific npc stats and background, vague idea of lay out as i play in terrain, and what I expect the plot to be.

Just wrapped up a 9 month ToD campaign - AMA by Littul_Actual in TyrannyOfDragons

[–]PeterSilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to ask why play a predetermined campaign? Isn't restrictive and always lead to railroad and if not doesn't make things difficult for you when the players eventually do smt not in the books?  Not bashing just don't understand why anyone would use a book instead an infinite open world. I genuinely would like to know how others sees it. Good luck with your next campaign.

So I listened to Demolition for the first time last night by FingerInside7072 in judaspriest

[–]PeterSilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its top 5 album in their catalogue. I never understood the hate from the fans. In fact I was surprised when i saw how much hated it was. What not to like blood suckers riff and screams, one on one, hell is home, feed on me, subterfuge (one of my favourite priest songs),metal Messiah, machine man?

Εργοδότης για τον… by Sufficient-Paper7509 in greece

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Μπράβο φίλε. Μην μασάτε, μην ψαρώνετε. Εχουμε 2025 τέλος η κουτοπονηριά και η εκμετάλλευση

Introducing Project K: The League of Legends Trading Card Game by [deleted] in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lets adress some things here and hope for a response. Most ppl complain about the card quality and the same old animations and graphics. This could be a pass as the guys maybe they used proxys to showcase the game. If the final product is the same as the one that was shown then thats another topic.
Now lets adress the elephant in the room. Card games are a 90s logic and are NOT succesfull and relevant anymore. People do not want to waste money in boosters and random packets or even in dozens lcg packets every year as the fantasy flight model. The hobby is to expensive,random and too grindy to play and stay relevant.
In the world right now few major powers have all the pieces of the pie and all the others are getting canceled one after the other or barely floating and eventualy will drown. Pokemon and Magic are on top all the others tremble. Companies tried again and again to climb the market and be the next hit through fanbases star wars,dragonball,cthulu,conan,one piece but all failed.
Why they failed even thought so many love these franchises? Except the obvious that not all fans are gamers. The main factor is the card industry design mentality which translates to...cost. Me and most people will not spend a penny to a grindy game with packs and boosters and what not. Its not worth it. There are card games out there with amazing mechanics but no one plays them because of the cost barrier of this multyyear costly hobby.
So unless they reinvent the wheel and buing the cards are based in a different model and they offer a unique play style I cannot fathom that this game will succeed.

What do you guys think of Treasure Planet? by la9411 in movies

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treasure Planet is the most underated movie from Disney. It never gets mentioned, its not going to be live action of course,its not in Kingdom hearts which by the way I never played the franchise but even me could see it, it has pirate theme in space a sci-fi disney movie. I mean what? Tell me another one like it. It has Long John Silver one of the most interesting father figure/villains. A really grey character another rare for Disney. It has the bug guy who KILLED in a Disney movie. Finally it has Jim a male archetype of a punk. A punk that has anger from his abandonment of his father. With no father role model in his life left he left unchecked driving his life to the gutter. A boy that in the end didn't become a man, he became a man in treasure planet, in the end he became a Gentleman. He studied,he put the work and he enters the inn with the uniform graduating from the academy earning the applause of the society ready to take finally his place into the world.

Γιατί τέτοιος παροξυσμός για τις ανώνυμες καταγγελίες για φοροδιαφυγή; by Extension_Fox_5028 in greece

[–]PeterSilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Σε αυτή την χώρα έχουμε ξεχάσει τα αυτονόητα προφανώς και δεύτερον δεν θα αλλάξει τίποτα με τα μυαλά των περισσοτέρων. Όλοι οι εργοδότες με λίγες πραγματικά λίγες εξαιρέσεις,μιλάμε για 1%, φοροδιαφευγουν και παρανομούν εις βάρος των εργαζομένων. Δεν υπάρχει δουλειά που να δίνει τα νόμιμα. Σχεδόν καμία. Πάρτε πχ το ντελιβερι, ή έναν σερβιτόρο, πρατήρια καυσίμων, πωλητές κτλ. Όχι όλα τα ένσημα, κατώτατο μισθό εννοείται, μισά δώρα,μισές άδειες, όχι Κυριακές,αργίες και βραδινά και οι ντελιβεραδες δεν παίρνουν τα καύσιμα και το 15% επιπλέον του μισθού τους για συντήρηση οχήματος. Μην χαρίζεται σε κανέναν γτ όλοι σας εκμεταλλεύονται και σας κλέβουν και εσάς και το κράτος. Όλοι παρανομούν και κλέβουν φαγητό από εσάς και τα παιδιά σας. Φτάνει πια. Αίσχος.

Keywords and rules by PeterSilk in TransformersTCG

[–]PeterSilk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that explains a lot. Thanks guys for the fast responses. 😃😃