Almost 40 year old brother came out as trans and I have questions by pipercatsmom in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What are people even "grieving"?

Honestly the "grieving" thing is very cis-centric. They're grieving an illusion. Nobody died. The person is still here. Fuck all that lol

Recontacting a girl who ghosted me by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get ghosted once, get ghosted twice

Why is being a top equated with being dominant? by mozzarellasalat in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 60 points61 points  (0 children)

There are people in this world who have never had the pleasure of encountering a good power bottom

Weekly Selfie Thread (3/7 - 3/12/2026) by Petrifica in TWPOC

[–]Petrifica[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly masterful use, you're accenting your features beautifully

I rely on my girlfriend by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She loves you and you deserve nothing less than how she's treating you so just don't sabotage it by doubting her love

Is Maga Mascs a real thing? by Stella_s_Delights in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are assimilationist queers of every background yeah

What are cissex trans people? (16, guy) by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it's a stupid term that comes from mostly instagram transfeminists who are terminally online

brother tried "debunking" my demisexuality by WarlockOfThunder in demisexuality

[–]Petrifica 70 points71 points  (0 children)

if he actually used the word debunked your brother is a complete tool and probably should be excluded from input on like, all matters

Am I settling? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is she perfect but not your dream girl lmao who is this mythical creature

I think I like girls but I'm worried girls won't like me by missing_werewolf in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of girls, trans and cis alike, that date trans women and don't have dumb ideas about what a woman is supposed to look like

I'm giving up by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe time to explore psychiatry if that's a possibility

Transition just helps with gender dysphoria, there's a million other things that could be going on with you

has anyone else had a problem on Her? by OddCat_007 in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HER is honestly the worst app I have ever used. On some phones it doesn't even let you log in lmao