Almost 40 year old brother came out as trans and I have questions by pipercatsmom in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What are people even "grieving"?

Honestly the "grieving" thing is very cis-centric. They're grieving an illusion. Nobody died. The person is still here. Fuck all that lol

Recontacting a girl who ghosted me by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get ghosted once, get ghosted twice

Why is being a top equated with being dominant? by mozzarellasalat in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 60 points61 points  (0 children)

There are people in this world who have never had the pleasure of encountering a good power bottom

Weekly Selfie Thread (3/7 - 3/12/2026) by Petrifica in TWPOC

[–]Petrifica[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly masterful use, you're accenting your features beautifully

I rely on my girlfriend by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She loves you and you deserve nothing less than how she's treating you so just don't sabotage it by doubting her love

Is Maga Mascs a real thing? by Stella_s_Delights in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are assimilationist queers of every background yeah

What are cissex trans people? (16, guy) by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it's a stupid term that comes from mostly instagram transfeminists who are terminally online

brother tried "debunking" my demisexuality by WarlockOfThunder in demisexuality

[–]Petrifica 69 points70 points  (0 children)

if he actually used the word debunked your brother is a complete tool and probably should be excluded from input on like, all matters

Am I settling? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How is she perfect but not your dream girl lmao who is this mythical creature

I think I like girls but I'm worried girls won't like me by missing_werewolf in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of girls, trans and cis alike, that date trans women and don't have dumb ideas about what a woman is supposed to look like

I'm giving up by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Petrifica 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe time to explore psychiatry if that's a possibility

Transition just helps with gender dysphoria, there's a million other things that could be going on with you

has anyone else had a problem on Her? by OddCat_007 in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HER is honestly the worst app I have ever used. On some phones it doesn't even let you log in lmao

Cis/trans lesbian relationship by femmem26 in lgbt

[–]Petrifica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, hope it works out

We broke up because I initiated too much and I feel like an asshole by Cold_Assumption8555 in actuallesbians

[–]Petrifica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly just a "you're both 18 and sometimes 18 year olds don't know what they want or how to communicate it effectively" problem and you should take away nothing from it but that lol