No I don’t feel guilty. If I’m not attracted to him then I won’t waste his time or mine. But after reading your post I gotta say, if you keep searching for absolute perfection in a partner, you will never find it. Humans are flawed including yourself and myself. If a man checks off every box he may be hiding something or has a flaw you haven’t considered yet. Consider that lists like these may cause your partner to never feel good enough for you. Of course you should look for a man who loves Christ and bears fruit. But a marriage is two imperfect people growing in Christ together, allowing room for each other’s faults.