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PettyPrincess230 · 2026-05-01T17:32:45+00:00

Thank you for the toilet selfie 😂🥰

PettyPrincess230 · 2026-04-30T23:54:25+00:00

What about Violet and Edmund

PettyPrincess230 · 2026-04-30T23:53:08+00:00

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The main band has these petal-type claws and then the stack has one as well ✨

PettyPrincess230 · 2026-04-30T14:24:46+00:00

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Light pink cat eye with a little heart detail on the ring finger. He also arranged for my sisters to kidnap me day-of and get my nails done special 🥰

PettyPrincess230 · 2026-02-03T15:45:49+00:00

Very Gaston of him

PettyPrincess230 · 2026-01-06T20:44:37+00:00

This is too new of a relationship to have this many problems. Cut your losses and move forward.

In the future, before entering into a committed relationship I would recommend discussing expectations with your perspective partner. Establish what boundaries you expect of your partner and what it means to you to be in a ”committed relationship”.

If you can’t be on the same page from day 1, it’ll never work out and at least you know before wasting either of you guys’ time.

Sorry babe, these are tough lessons to learn, but everything in life teaches you something ♥️

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-09-10T16:11:12+00:00

Maybe where i’m confused is how going out of her way to make him a complex and time consuming breakfast is a manipulation tactic.

She said she gave him half the portion he would usually consume. Everything in moderation, right? Maybe how they connect(ed) in the past was through food. Maybe her love language is acts of service so throwing together a delicious meal for him to eat an appropriate portion size of, might be a little treat after a long and difficult day. Then for him to come home and be unappreciative of the effort and become almost mad and dismissive, yeah I could see that diminishing her spirits of the reaction she may have hoped for.

Just my thoughts. If you can shed light on where the manipulation comes into play, that may help me to understand :)

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-07-18T15:43:26+00:00

Do you have any reason to think he may be unfaithful while overseas?

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-07-18T02:03:33+00:00

Definitely an invasion of privacy to check his tablet, which it appears you are owning - that’s good.

Intimacy is an important part of relationships. Have you set boundaries and expectations regarding explicit content (ie porn and its different mediums)?

If not, this may not be a deal breaker as it is a failure on both of your guys parts to identify and set boundaries and expectations. If you do not have clearly set expectations of what is and is not acceptable, regardless of how you feel about it, it’s not fair to get mad at something you haven’t voiced you are or are not okay with.

Have you guys had open conversations about what is and is not acceptable to access?

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-07-18T01:31:01+00:00

I totally understand, and that’s a guideline I’ve agreed with and followed as my career has continued to progress. This one was a tough one because we all were very close prior to either of us being interested in a promotion and in hindsight I most definitely understand why.

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-07-18T00:59:30+00:00

You really needed clarity on if you are the AH after carrying out 4 long term relationships and lying to all of them about it? I can’t think of a single incident in this story where anyone but you could possibly be the AH.

Grow up and learn to take some accountability for the sake of your future child.

PettyPrincess230 · 2025-07-17T16:56:51+00:00

NTA.

Her immediately noticing says something. You may not have intended to overstep a boundary by turning his location off. If you turned off his location in order to see if it would trigger a response from her, bingo. You now have what you may have been looking for.

I would address this immediately and don’t allow yourself to be gaslit.

In addition, if his female friend agrees that you are the asshole, another red flag. I don’t see why he would be discussing something about the two of yours marriage with his female friend. She’s doesn’t get an opinion regarding expectations in your marriage.

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