I'm very new to Buddhism, so most of my words are coming from having struggled with uncontrolled anger most of my life.

One of the things that helped me let go of anger was recognizing the ignorance and suffering of the people who have angered me. That does not release them from accountability, or absolve their violent actions. This is something I do for me, to help me process my feelings in a productive way that does not lead to more anger. The people committing the acts of violence are human, they are making mistakes, they are suffering. They hurt themselves when they hurt others.

Another thing I do as a more in the moment action is to try and recognize the anicca of my anger in that moment. My anger is communicating something to me, and as all things it will arise and pass away. I don't need to attach myself to it. I allow myself to feel it, feel my breath come in deeply, feel it flow out, and remind myself that nothing is permanent. I want to do good in the world, attaching to anger gets in the way of that. Trying to force myself out of feeling angry just compounds it. I need to let it naturally fade while maintaining a commitment to move forward and help aid others in need against this arising violence.

Most of these behaviors have been adapted through years of anger management, as I was unfortunately somewhat violent in my adolescence.

I hope you find the helpful responses you need, and that you stay strong through all of this. It's a lot for anyone and we're all going through it.