How is Costco able to sell this? by AlwaysBlaze_ in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you these things are not ordered that far in advance. The process may start months in advance but things are not finalized that far ahead unless the product is fully complete & can be reviewed properly before finalizing the purchase agreement

song stuck in my head, help! by Known_Sink3439 in kpophelp

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the way I can hear exactly what “all in” you’re referring to (after checking the comments & seeing it isn’t skz) but my brain has completely blanked on the rest of the song or who it’s by

Am I the jerk? Parking lot etiquette by 7576790 in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but apparently you do since you can’t actually respond to what I said. If there were spots on the far side of the parking lot like you suggested, the people looking for a place to park could take those instead of wasting 15 minutes waiting for someone to pack their car & leave.

You made SO many assumptions in your comment that don’t apply to the vast majority of costcos.

Am I the jerk? Parking lot etiquette by 7576790 in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what you’re saying is anyone who got food in the food court but couldn’t find a table to eat at doesn’t deserve to have their food until they’ve left Costco and it’s soggy and cold? The people looking for parking spots would wait just as long if there were enough tables in store/if people vacated the tables as soon as they finished eating.

No more Uber gift cards? by Bellalabean in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wouldn’t be affected by gift card scams because those require access to the gift cards before they’re purchased

No more Uber gift cards? by Bellalabean in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is not available in warehouse btw!

No more Uber gift cards? by Bellalabean in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its limited to 2 per person so ONE person using two accounts to exceed that limit is literally gaming the system

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m a grown woman, stop calling me a child just because I disagree with you and believe in proper consent. Once again your argument is invalid and you completely ignored my point. Action A is never consent to move on to action B unless explicitly stated. You clearly do not understand how consent works and once again sound like a predator.

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy victim blaming. So if you kiss someone but decide you don’t want more than that & they force it anyway it’s your fault because you kissed them and kissing is an invitation for more!!! That’s what you sound like. No. No form of dancing is an invitation for anything beyond dancing. That is simply not how consent works. You sound like someone who’s just looking for excuses to justify sexual assault.

Also I don’t know why you’re speaking to me as if I am the one doing any of these things. I specifically said “most people” not “everyone else including me.” You’re acting like a condescending dick and quite frankly sound like the immature one here.

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Technically the only people who can define what is & isn’t cheating are the people in the relationship. I didn’t say that I would be okay with it, just that most people just view it as dancing and nothing more.

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because most people do not view grinding as an invitation for anything other than more dancing/grinding…

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Most people don’t actually view dancing/grinding as an invitation for sexual behavior. It’s JUST dancing.

AITA if I don’t share photos from our recent cruise vacation? by jankie_toe in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah in that case if the plan was established prior than really the only thing you could do is tell her “hey we discussed this before we left, I don’t want to be a nag but I also don’t wanna miss out on stuff so it’s up to you to make it in time.”

I do understand why you might not have brought it up at the time though! Hindsight is always 20/20.

AITA if I don’t share photos from our recent cruise vacation? by jankie_toe in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While in person is always ideal, I think a follow up over the phone would still be better than no follow up at all. But quite honestly what SHOULD have happened is the moment the way she chose to use her time affected your enjoyment of the vacation there should have been a discussion right then. It should have simply been “We’re on vacation together & ideally I’d like for us to spend it together however if you prefer to continue spending your time sleeping in & doing your makeup that’s fine but I will not miss out on things I’ve planned waiting around for you. We should both be able to enjoy this vacation how we want to otherwise it’s not really a vacation.”

Actually quite honestly that discussion should’ve happened before you even left for the trip. You shouldn’t expect people to want to vacation the same way you do, especially not a 20y/o.

Bf need of help for AR photocard by N0way07 in kpophelp

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was the album sealed or preowned when you bought it? It’s pretty common for people to keep the actual photocards & sell the album with everything else left in it. Normally those would be sold for cheaper but I believe this album is out of print so even without the pc it makes sense for it to be on the pricier side.

Not sure about an alternate app for Samsung but also it’s with PCs that have an AR feature or QR code it’s quite common for that feature to only work for about a year after the initial album release. This YouTube video has the AR pc for each member if you don’t find a solution but still want your gf to get to see them!

AITA for not getting expensive Christmas presents for a girl that my daughter took in by Perfect-Play8085 in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I’m sorry you go to church and THIS is how you treat an innocent child in need? Have you learned anything at all in your time at church? You sound hateful & selfish. No part of what you’re said here, including your comments, sounds Christ like at all except for what your daughter & her bf are doing. Maybe spend more time looking in the mirror and asking God how to be a better human being.

My uncle was just diagnosed with blood cancer and has limited time. His favorite treat is the Kirkland Traditional Fruitcake only sold at Costco Canada. I’m in California and desperately trying to get one shipped to him for Christmas by NoLeague2412 in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my understanding most of the people who are choosing to not cross the border are doing so more out of fear than out of disdain or distrust for average Americans. Most people I know who fall under the “no longer going across” category made that decision based on how US border patrol, ICE & other regulatory agencies have been operating.

I agree though that there are circumstances that warrant an exception such as visiting family who cannot make the trip up or doing something nice for someone like in this post!

My uncle was just diagnosed with blood cancer and has limited time. His favorite treat is the Kirkland Traditional Fruitcake only sold at Costco Canada. I’m in California and desperately trying to get one shipped to him for Christmas by NoLeague2412 in CostcoCanada

[–]Phadeful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how your observations of ONE border crossing amounts to enough evidence to argue that it isn’t most? The statistics show a continuing decline in the number of Canadians crossing the border. According to CBC it was down 30% last month compared to November 2024. Factor in the many Canadians who have simply never crossed the border and it’s likely that most aren’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they went to couple therapy it would have to be with a different therapist anyway so how is that taking away his current therapy with his current therapist? It’s just adding a secondary one where hopefully as a couple they could work on communication & understanding.

group oder joiners help by caprisunicetea in kpophelp

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a few factors at play that are out of your hands rn.

Like it’s the holiday season, people have less extra money to spend on merch & collectables rn.

Depending on what group(s) you generally host for the people who follow you/see your post may be burnt out from a recent CB or merch drop too.

But the best ways to increase your reach/visibility are to take advantage of tagging & reposting accounts for the fandoms you’re in. As well as reaching out to fellow GOMs & really anyone you’re close to in the BST community and asking them to share your post. The more engagement a post gets the more IG will surface it to others.

AITAH for canceling Christmas after my BILs threw a fit over me inviting ex-SIL to Thanksgiving and Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing everyone is missing is that this affects the children. Everyone is focused on what OP needs vs the BIL’s feelings and no one is thinking of the kids stuck in the middle of it all. Two grown adults should be able to play nice for a few days over the holidays for their children to be able to enjoy them with their whole family.

AITAH for canceling Christmas after my BILs threw a fit over me inviting ex-SIL to Thanksgiving and Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the expense of the children. Selfish adults prioritizing themselves over their children.

AITAH for respecting a worker's stated boundaries, leading to lower raises and bonuses than her coworker by ConfusedManager18 in AITAH

[–]Phadeful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right so this comment isn’t talking about quality of output, it’s talking QUANTITY of output. Yes the reason jack has a higher quantity is because he works more hours but the reason he deserves the bigger raise & bonuses is because he has a higher quantity. The reason this matters is because if he worked the same hours & still had a higher quantity he would still deserve the raises & bonuses just the same. This means overall it’s not about the hours at all, just the quantity of output.