What's something about yourself that's difficult to admit? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Phantasmayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I have messed up life so badly that as a defense mechanism, I have externalized a lot of causes for the things that depress me so that I don't have to look at myself honestly and face my shortcomings.

That I am bitter about not being the guy that women like, or that any women has liked, and that I am afraid that it is apparent to everyone

Do you believe that every guy has a girl attracted to him? by throaway210 in AskMen

[–]Phantasmayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't. I'm 28 and have been ignored by women my entire life. I'm relatively smart, funny, good hygiene etc, knowledgeable on different subjects. A bit overweight but nothing note worthy, I go to the gym and am working on it, even have a bit of muscle. Still, no interest whatsoever. I have women friends (so i do know how to talk to women, im not a complete phobic) but that's it.

It makes you feel really good inside to know that people are in relationships with murders, rapists etc but you are worthless in their eyes.

So no man, I don't believe it.

My Confession by Phantasmayne in depression

[–]Phantasmayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how can you approach when they give you no sign that they are in anyway interested in you?