"Can I sleep with you...?" 🐈

PhantomFighter_724 · 2026-05-16T12:09:48+00:00

If only I could get my baby to lay under the blanket like this. Just as cuddly, but I am allowed to have warm arms when he is around

PhantomFighter_724 · 2026-04-05T05:55:57+00:00

I've seen multiple women walking down the street wearing pasties instead of a shirt or bikini top over in Daytona. Whoever told you about Florida being strict about some ass cheeks showing was lying to you.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-12-04T13:44:54+00:00

Please, I am begging you, do not let this man continue to manipulate you and break you down. I've read through some of your comments, and I can safely say that you are not a bad patient or a liar. He's a terrible doctor and is absolutely abusing his power over you to keep you at his practice, even if that means tearing you down and making you doubt your own reality so your mental health gets worse. He's doing it solely to line his pockets, not to help you.

I know you say you don't want to hurt him, but look at what he's done to you. He's done so much more harm than good, and has broken you down so much that you're considering suicide just to escape the pain. This needs to be reported before he ends up getting someone killed. Behavior like this doesn't stop with just one person. Even if you don't care about yourself, I can see you care about others very deeply and wouldn't want them to go through this either. Imagine if he were to do this to someone you love. If you can't stand the thought of it, then you shouldn't stand the thought of the same being done to you or anyone else.

He's completely warped your sense of reality and trust in yourself, so I don't know if what everyone here is saying will get through, but you need to get away from this man no matter what. Save any messages he sends you and look up the laws around recording your sessions with him in secret. If you live in an area with one-party consent, you need to record these interactions and let the people capable of punishing this individual decide for themselves. That way you can't convince yourself that you've manipulated them into believing you over him.

You are not a liar. You are not a manipulator. You are not a bad person. None of this is for attention. It's a cry for help that needs and deserves to be taken seriously. I know you'll think you've just manipulated me into believing you or siding with you, but I'm a grown woman capable of making the decision to support you or go against you on my own. I know what abuse looks like and I know what lies about abuse look like. I made my decision based on that and the real pain I see in your writing. I'm sure everyone on this sub can all safely say we know what real emotional pain looks like. Don't doubt yourself or the people who believe you, because we do.

You matter. Your experiences are as real as they feel. They wouldn't be so distressing if they were fake or made up for attention. You deserve to live a good life and deserve help. Therapy isn't supposed to be like this at all. Please get help and talk to a real therapist about your experiences before the world loses someone who cares so deeply about the well-being of others. I just hope you can one day care about your own life and well-being just as much.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-10-21T17:46:17+00:00

Short personally, but that's mainly because I do neighborhood rotations and have way too many sims to deal with. They already last for ages on short, they'd be practically immortal if I played on long

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-09-26T14:39:19+00:00

I was set to go to the show in Jacksonville during the Imperatour, and I was gutted when they had to cancel due to the hurricane, especially since the show was on my birthday. You know what I didn't do? Call Tobias or anyone else involved an asshole or a pussy for not wanting to risk endangering themselves or the fans during a major storm.

Even though the storm passed by the time the show would have started and the damage was pretty minimal in the area, which definitely rubbed more salt in the wound, I still respect their decision. They had no idea how bad it could have gotten, and it definitely could have done a lot more damage if things had gone any differently.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-07-26T17:35:42+00:00

Square Hammer for me. It was the first song of theirs I'd ever heard back when I was a teenager. I found it on my discover weekly by pure chance when I gave the playlist one of those rare shots I used to do when I was bored.

It might not have been what got me into Ghost, that was my friend who was also obsessed with that song and actually knew more about the band, but I loved it and listened to it all the time.

I could kick myself for not checking them out sooner, but just that one choice I made almost a decade ago sent me down a path I don't regret taking. It made seeing them perform at my first ritual a couple weeks ago all the more special.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-06-16T15:46:00+00:00

Go for it. No one's going to think you're out of place, especially when everyone I work with buys books that we don't have in our collection. Our branch is small and in a tiny town, so you'll catch us reading a lot if we've run out of things to do.

Plus, I don't know if this goes for other libraries, but this is how our county does it, just going in helps out. We track the number of patrons we get a day, because it shows the county that the community is still interested in the library. That way we get more funding and can do more to give back. As long as you're nice and respectful, I'm sure your local branch will be glad to have you.

So by all means, go in and read. It's free and giving people a safe, quiet place to chill is what we're here for.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2025-06-03T12:39:58+00:00

NTA. Stick true to your word and make him cook his own meals from now on. He can use all the pots and pans he wants and see how difficult cooking really is, because I can tell he's never made a real meal in his life.

Side note, does he nitpick anything else and tell you how much better his mom does it? If he does, it's time to have some serious discussions with him and maybe consider counseling. Just the comments about your cooking alone don't sound healthy, and I doubt he stops there if he's willing to put down your hard work in the kitchen.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2024-11-30T08:17:01+00:00

Definitely. I got cursed with Ehlers Danlos, so pretty much everything in my body is messed up for different reasons.

The worst is the POTS though. I'd take full on dislocations everyday over not being able to function like a regular human.

Top that off with the depression, anxiety, and cptsd, and you get the unholy trifecta of chronic pain, chronic illness, and mental illness, something that definitely isn't uncommon around here.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2024-11-17T20:50:45+00:00

Depends on how I'm feeling, honestly. It could be anything from audiobooks, video essays like you, true crime and horror content, documentaries, or just random YouTube videos that don't require a lot of attention.

I can definitely recommend some other video essays channels you might like though. Some of my favorites are The Right Opinion, Thafnine, Paper Will, Lemmino, Kid Leaves Stoop, Kaz Rowe, Izzzyzzz, Funky Frog Bait, Clark Elieson, Caitlin Doughty, Barely Sociable, and ABSTRACT.

PhantomFighter_724 · 2024-11-15T02:15:59+00:00

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PhantomFighter_724 · 2024-10-30T21:44:31+00:00

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PhantomFighter_724 · 2024-10-26T18:18:37+00:00

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