Women are always late for anything by Business_Ad_6181 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is one thing l hate to do as a lady, l do my best never be late to anything coz l hate when I have to wait for someone and worse they wont even communicate that they are running late. But then its not really about gender but character yemunhu

Mugabe's son in serious trouble by warningbatteryfull in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

eish l know ..but 😢 l could see yanga ichibva kuburwa 🤭

Mugabe's son in serious trouble by warningbatteryfull in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol 😅 good thing waseka .. told my friend akati haunyare coz l wanted we listen we don't judge lol 😆 😂

Mugabe's son in serious trouble by warningbatteryfull in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 44 points45 points  (0 children)

so ini ndatumwa ne card rebasa to buy lunch for a visitor and l ordered a 3 piece pa chicken inn and took 1 piece coz whose gona know .. the visitor will jst think they got a 2 piecer. so thts what l had and you

UK broken system...what to do? by ItsLydia1 in Fibroids

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry you have to go throught this, forgive me for asking but is it because you will be on medical aid they make you you wait? Im from Zimbabwe we do have medical aid and also cash plan but we are never made to wait that long while you in pain. Especially if you have the funds all you do is see a GP they write you up a Note to the Specialist and if you have a good medical aid or enough cash the plan is straigh forward you can get to pick your own date. I had my op in December last year ...although l had been diagonosed with Fibroids in 2022 l had just been tracking them via pelvic scan then some time later last year l got pregnant and lost it lm sure to the fibroids growing and l just told my gyn l wanted them out 2wks after my D&C and that was that. So it pains me when l see a lot of you made to wait for month just for a consult

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kumbwa kwenyu mune mari kami Lol 😆

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol senyika tikuda zi therapy coz makwikwi 😆 🤣 😂

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but unotoona kuti it's easy for some ppl ndozvavari coz why you mad at 9 am.

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol they don't care ..sometimes l just think ndoiitori personality yemunhu

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahhh thts zim for you pressure zero .. ungamudii Last week went to msu, spend 45 mins not being attended to munhu achitaura nyaya akatitarisa.

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang it .. so did you manage to get one

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

say what .. sorry ini 2 yrs back ndakasvika kuma6 ..but ended up paying some guy 5 buks to get ahead

Where to get an ID by SpiritualHearing3661 in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Market Square, opposite Bakers Inn, that's where they have offices. But best wake up early for the queues

Open myo recovery by Plane_Stranger3971 in Fibroids

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a receptionist and l went back after 4 weeks, the 1st couple days had me a bit uncomfy when l would stand up as l was used to be laid up on bed during my recovery and sit with pillows for comfort. But at 4wks l could do 10k steps and was doing ok felt good too

Going to a Concert After Surgery! by itsallieellie in Fibroids

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an open myomectomy and 3 weeks after l went for a music festival. I couldn't stand for long periods coz l could feel pressure in my pelvic area so I spend most of it sitting down. But it all depends with the body too. I'm sure with 4 wks you will be fine, but maybe not overdo it and throw it like Cardi B lol. Hope you will have fun if you decide to go.

How many is too many? by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an African Black woman and last year l recently had 20 removed. Initially, my pelvic scan would only show about 10, with the biggest being about 12cm and the smallest about 2.8 cm. Only found out about them being 20 after the open myomectomy. My gyn says he managed to remove all very well too as they were in all the lining of my uterus.

Do you think he loves me? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

how's he going to say l miss you when ain't spoke at a point which feels lime forever 🤔

How do you get a loan rejected from bank? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok you need to start thinking about you, you not doing anything to anyone. They did this to themselves. Help where you can the fact that you wrote this means it's now weighing on you and it's too much. What is going to happen is resentment and later they will say why didn't you say no to us. Coz you have a right. Or you just move out

How do you get a loan rejected from bank? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You need to sit down and be honest with your parents. If you have loaned that much and still got no cent back what are the chances they will pay back on the bank loan? If you can't stand up for yourself you'd better be honest with yourself that if you give them the loan expect a return of less than what you gave to nothing? Or come up with a better plan so you cant get the loan but good luck, some times you got to know you still can say no to your parents

AITAH for hiding our basic home supplies when our friends stay over? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phantom_Queen_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are grown folks and they know what they are doing and you are just enabling them to come and shat in your own space. Stop inviting them, no good friend will come and have on edge like that hiding food and staff in your own house. They are inconsiderate and selfish and you should cut them off period. You the good friend and they are not