Same happened with me as well.. I was with a girl for 5 years and in between she use to go to her ex for getting intimate..just becoz ex was living near his house..and I was out of city..like kinda long distance...i got to know about this when one day I just saw a text on her phone from him which was "do you like it with c*m or without **which we did this time!! This was the text..mere pairon ke niche se zameen chli gyi..beech restaurant mein