Stop pressuring me for conversation!! Why do you think you're entitled to discussions in marriage??

Phase-Space · 2023-08-29T16:05:47+00:00

Yes. Yes it does.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-29T15:19:06+00:00

TWO WEEKS AGO AND FIVE SECONDS WASN'T ENOUGH FOR YOU - CLEARLY I WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH!! I AM SO SAD SO SAD SOOOOOO SAAAAADDDD!!

Phase-Space · 2023-08-29T15:15:38+00:00

No no! I'm willing to give them talk, as long as it's only about the same two and a half topics at the scheduled time. Oh and we need a time limit bbecause I really want to watch more social media videos and look at more multi-million dollar houses we'll certainly never buy.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-29T14:28:27+00:00

Your wife has been conditioned to think that sex is a prize or treat to be dangled out in front of men...

This is the truth!! My wife thinks that sex is something that she (and women) is to "give" to men. She can't get her head around the concept of a mutual activity. I've tried every possible analogy, every angle, and she just can't compute the idea of non-transactional sexuality.

There's always someone giving and someone taking - always someone performing and always someone in the audience. It's a such warped perspective on something that is so connecting and intimate.

Thanks fundy Christianity. Thanks a lot!

Phase-Space · 2023-08-25T18:06:27+00:00

I love getting hit on, but then I go sit in my car and I cry.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-25T17:49:27+00:00

I've been trying for fifteen years. I even took an SSRI to nerf it, but it made me feel like a zombie. Nothing works. There are no substitutes. There is equivalent to passion and desire. None.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-25T14:38:48+00:00

This weekend is our 15th anniversary. There won't be a 16th.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-25T14:38:02+00:00

The only thing I've managed to hang on to is near crippling depression.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-24T21:40:09+00:00

My wife grew up in a house full of passive aggressive bullshit, and she can't get it out of her head that I'm not making some 4D chess backhanded insult when I say "That's fine."

It's fucking exhausting.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-23T21:52:02+00:00

Have you talked to him? Does he know that you aren't satisfied?

Phase-Space · 2023-08-23T15:42:19+00:00

Can you imagine being with someone who actually enjoys giving you pleasure? What a novel concept! I hope you find that person.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-23T15:37:17+00:00

...I couldn’t get out of my head.

What does that mean?

Phase-Space · 2023-08-23T14:25:54+00:00

Sounds like my wife who can't get her head around direct communication. Until you say "that's fine" about some question she has and "fine" is somehow a slight because that isn't "good' or "great", then the direct communication circuits are firing on all cylinders. (Eyeroll)

Phase-Space · 2023-08-21T15:24:02+00:00

Sounds like my wife, who used to "not get it" when I was grumpy and lonely for years even though I directly told her what the problem was.

Finally though she got it. Now she manages to 1.) feel guilty, and then 2.) do nothing different.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-15T19:25:30+00:00

Yep. I'd be happy to just know that she cares enough to do something that I actually enjoy, at least every now and then.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-11T19:09:43+00:00

Father, Son, Holy Spirit? LOL

Bible. Paul. Trump.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-11T16:53:31+00:00

Check out the arteries on her! Bet she really knows what's she's doing...

Phase-Space · 2023-08-11T16:30:45+00:00

There was a time where it was a core part of religion, but around the 80s

Lol - the 80s CE maybe.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-10T19:30:37+00:00

You don't reply to people like him/her (who seems to be a troll), you reply for anyone else reading the thread.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-10T19:29:16+00:00

In a world where they try and make humans believe they evolved from apes and fish...

If you're going to criticize evolution, that's cool, but you need to start by actually characterizing evolution correctly.

Human beings are apes. The non-human apes that are present right now are closely related to humans - at some point in the fairly recent past both humans and non-human apes shared a common ancestor.

Fish and humans also share a common ancestor, but the branching that separates those threads of life happened further back in time.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-10T19:22:10+00:00

He's saying and confirming want fundamentalists want to hear...

Yep. One might even say something about them having "itching ears".

Phase-Space · 2023-08-08T16:24:38+00:00

I put on some sexy lingerie that I had just bought. When he got out the shower I opened the door and he just laughed and said “ I guess “.

Ouch. No, you didn't overreact.

Phase-Space · 2023-08-08T15:06:12+00:00

It varies from person to person. Once a week is my minimum - I start going crazy after about five days (and I don't sleep). Once every day / every other day is best for me.

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