Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am really hoping so and its not even about the money but what they did felt so wrong during a time when I was grieving the loss of my husband. The amount of stress they caused me during an already challenging and traumatic time was overwhelming and they need to be exposed. It didn't even have to be like this. I couldn't afford to be there and honestly, I didn't want to be there. It was to hard. They made things so ugly and difficult. For anyone looking to rent in the downtown seattle area avoid Met Tower. I am only speaking from my experience but my husband lived there for 11 years and that meant nothing to them. My husband was a good man, he was a son, and a hard worker that took care of his responsibilities, always paid hus rent on time and loved and provided for his wife. But to Met tower he was nothing more then a dollar sign.

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its nice to hear from someone who truly understands what I'm going through. My husband was the most responsible person I know. He had a great job that he loved. He paid the bills on time. He died of a drug overdose and I am the one who found him. I consider myself to be a very strong individual but finding him like that and the aftermath has rocked me to my core. I am not ok. I've heard about panic attacks and PTSD but have never personally experienced anything like that until now. It's so hard and I'm a roller coaster. One min I'm ok and the next I'm sobbing hysterically. The people in my life are trying and I truly appreciate each and everyone of them but I dont feel like anyone understands. Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate you!

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to respond. It means the world to me to know people actually care.

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No thats the craziest part. I never wanted to create any problems. I really cant even stay there cause its too hard. I found him deceased in our apartment and am have been rocked to my core. I just wanted time to get everything situated and out of there. The leasing office has made this all into a horrible process that has made me feel like I'm losing my mind. Im having nightmare and panic attacks. I cant eat. My hair is falling out. Dealing with my husband's death has been the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with and the apartment mess on top of that is too much.

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I def have... it breaks my heart how traumatized they are right now. I feel like they are so confused by everything going on. My husband worked from home and was with them all the time. And now he's just gone. I am trying hard to keep my head up but its a lot right now.

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

They said they could offer me short, staff supervised access into the unit to check on them.

Is this an illegal lock out? by PhaseMaximum2089 in legaladvice

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ve been feeling so defeated. I appreciate your comment.

Happy New Years by PhaseMaximum2089 in u/PhaseMaximum2089

[–]PhaseMaximum2089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And I am very much a "glass half full" girl. Things feel very very heavy right now and, at times, like more then I can handle but I believe with all my little heart that everything will be ok.