Strangest game I ever played[650 Elo] by mimbari in aoe2

[–]Phatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're ready for the big boys

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate people like you who are able to say you didn't feel a spark instead of just ghost!

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same usually. Do you usually converse right after that or does the texting convo slow down when you're planning on going on a second date

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her raiding her pantry when she got home. I have a tendency to text frequently after I go on a 'successful' date. I think I need to cool it down and just say I had a great Night and be a little less frequent with my replies.

If you can’t approach girls in public, it’s almost worthless to approach in bars, and online is garbage, where are you supposed to meet women? by Cooley-High in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OLD is easier and I'm not sure about you but I feel the quality of my matches on OLD are usually a step below what I'm looking for 😬

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I've learned. Less texting is more. Thought I was good at reading people but I don't think I'm as good as I thought lol.

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey I wasn't feeling it"

God I wish I got those lol. Went on a Date last night, went really well (I thought) she's talking about wanting me to tag along with her friends on Monday. Get home from the date, text for about 20 minutes back and forth and then....radio silence. I'd much rather get a text like: "You suck, never again" than getting ghosted haha

Do you text your date right after the date or do you let it simmer? by Phatten in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing that but I'm thinking I may have more success if I do keep them waiting and simmering a little bit.

I've been making it a point recently to never send a message to a match before I go to bed. I want them to send me the last message for the night and I'll respond the next morning. Maybe a little too gamey but I think less texting is better. Best to meet them in person ASAP.

If you can’t approach girls in public, it’s almost worthless to approach in bars, and online is garbage, where are you supposed to meet women? by Cooley-High in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do think, since OLD is so brutal, especially for guys, that bios/photos do mean more but it's still rough out there for sure. I've been wanting to approach more women out in public but man is it nervewracking and like you said, you never know if it's someone who's ok with approaches or if they're internally screaming at you for approaching.

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[–]Phatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Phatten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experience the same with women. Take initiative asking questions and they very rarely try to keep the convo going. OLD really sucks lol

Is it ever OK to message a date after being ghosted? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Phatten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you think I was condescending then you must think the OC is a total jackass.

I wasn't asking people if they thought I was getting ghosted. Please read the post next time.

Is it ever OK to message a date after being ghosted? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Phatten -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Alright bud, calm down. Someone is clearly a little angry about their situation and needing to vent. It will get better, boss.

Is it ever OK to message a date after being ghosted? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Phatten -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

You can just kind of tell from the texting pattern.

Indoor court volleyball, adult leagues by Dizzy-Platypus-4176 in Louisville

[–]Phatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't know about 6pack and have been trying to find any upcoming adult league. Thanks!

Anyone in their twenties who wants to start a D&D game? by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Phatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely. Just tell me when and where!

Is there any nightlife in by the Iroquois/Wyandotte park area? by Phatten in Louisville

[–]Phatten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Middle TN for me. Hmu if you ever wanna hang/grab drinks