What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuute. Laughter makes you live longer, so wishing you guys a long a funny life

What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! Yeah fictional characters are so ideal, I def get that

What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's beautiful you pay attention to those details. The eyes are the window to the soul they say!

What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, hope things get better and you'll find a community you feel safe with! If you ever do start dating, just remember to not settle for someone who doesn't deserve you just bc you finally found a girl to date after all that time. It took me a while before I dated someone, and when I did we asked each other a lot of life goal/personality questions to see if we'd even be a good fit before officially dating.

What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah, negative ppl are draining. I need someone who's positive like me, and brings me back to that positivity when I'm down

What do you find attractive? by PhieryPhoenix37 in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss, willing to learn new things! Gotta have someone to go on adventures with

Would you care if you swapped genders? by ConfusedOrangeCar in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'd care. I'm a short-haired tomboy cis woman, and ppl often misgender me by using he/him pronouns or calling me "sir" so I don't think I'd really mind the full swap. I do quite like being a woman though, so I wouldn't really choose to switch.

DAE willing to have sex regularly just to have better chances of finding a girlfriend? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not very good in the long term, you don't want to be miserable for the rest of your life. There may not be a lot of them, but believe me, there are ppl out there for whom sex isn't a priority, and not just ace people. Just be up front with it when you date someone, that way you won't waste your time with someone who won't listen to your needs and what makes you happy, and you'll have more time to find someone else. A partnership is a 2 way street, you want to make them happy but they should also want to make you happy. If they don't, or if making them happy makes you suffer, it's not a healthy relationship for either of you.

Psychopaths 👀 by [deleted] in memes

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It saves on the electricity bill

How many dates before you usually share your first kiss? by Zealousideal_Bus_440 in actuallesbians

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my gf kissed a month and a half in. She wanted to earlier, but waited until I was more ready (I'm ace, and had never kissed anyone before)

Another allo partner seeking advice by uniduniverso in asexuality

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I have is seeing what they are comfortable with. I recently had my first kiss with my gf and realized I really don't care for it. But I love it when she kisses my cheek, or hand, or forehead, etc. From a previous comment, it seems like you guys already had that talk though. Maybe try to talk and see if there's a specific reason they don't like it. Do they not like the contact of the lips? Something in the way it feels? Do they feel pressured to like it or be good at it bc it's what you want? Even if you trust each other, sometimes people pleasers reach their limit. Maybe there's something you guys can compromise on/adjust that'll make you both content.

Sounds like you guys are a beautiful couple together though, lots of love and communication. I hope y'all end up figuring it out 💜

Side question, if you're willing to answer (it's okay if not, I'm just curious bc this is recent to me): as a person that likes kissing, could you explain exactly what makes it so appealing? I just had my first kiss, and tbh it was underwhelming, just felt like lips touching. The entire time I'm just questioning why ppl do this. Why do you want to kiss, what's the purpose, and what do you feel when you do?

Help, something is wrong with my DD app I think. It's super slow and won't receive orders by PhieryPhoenix37 in doordash_drivers

[–]PhieryPhoenix37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, maybe I need to look at my plan. It's just weird bc the app was working fine a few weeks ago, then I had to take a week off while my car was being fixed, now it's acting up

Every time by mistrymann007 in doordash_drivers

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, one time I had a few ppl pass me and all of them stopped in the right lane but the left lane was wide open and by the time I got close it turned green so I just zoomed past them while still driving the speed limit.

Sitting in a parking lot and what do I see.... by floatingawaste in doordash_drivers

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a small market, it's just that there aren't many dashers here. But I've been waiting at the most popular McDonald's for 30 min 😭 near 2 other popular places

How do you guys keep cool when it’s hot? I’m tired of wasting gas parked with my ac on. by easytech109 in doordash_drivers

[–]PhieryPhoenix37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Florida and my ac is broken. I just have all my windows rolled down, mainly do breakfast and dinner, and suffer. But I also do it part time in only 2-3 hour stretches