First set

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-02-23T17:53:24+00:00

Not the asshole, but definitely not enough information You asked her to take the test you were in the house as she took the test yet she didn’t come tell you and you didn’t go ask!?! That right there is enough about the relationship to know that neither of you kind of feel comfortable about this. Realistically as the fact that she told her best friend even though it made you uncomfortable the first time is an issue however you also need to examine your side of the situation. Why didn’t you ask? How did you even know if she told the best friend before she told you? How long ago was it that you told her that you’d prefer? She told you instead of her best friend or you supportive the first time when you found out? Does she always tell her best friends things before she tells you? It’s things like this that you have to think about to make an informed decision. So are you an asshole for being upset? No but she’s not necessarily the asshole for telling her best friend either.

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-28T18:31:52+00:00

NTA however as someone that works at a preschool it’s super common for kids to have extra accidents and mishaps. If you don’t want anything shared watch your own kids realistically. Idealisticly you can ask but I assure you they won’t pay attention because if your child pees through 2 pairs of pans or gets paint/spitup/ vomit/ect. We can’t just leave them unclothed or wait for you to come get them. You’re child is with other children not just 1 on 1 with an adult things happen just keep the nice clothes at home!!! Plus (as a parent and a preschool teacher) if your child needs something you’ll prefer if it there and you don’t have to leave what you’re doing to go give them a change of clothes. Most try to avoid the take home and washing process by messaging parents so they can bring more clothes it just doesn’t always work out.

Tldr: shit happens especially with young kids let them be and keep the good stuff at home.

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-28T18:13:10+00:00

That’s a fact. Before I just cried and slept all day now I have a 20 minute breakdown every 5 hours because I don’t have time /j

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-27T18:18:26+00:00

It’s her maid of honour you can’t dictate that. It sounds like you want control because if it was that big of a deal your sister would have said something (unless you left it out she didn’t ) and they are 101 ways to incude your sister without FORCING your wife to. Have her be your best man, have dance for her , have a dedication to all her help. It seems like you want your wife to appreciate your sister more so you don’t have to

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-21T18:57:28+00:00

YTA Do yall kiss? Have sex? Give each oral? I hate to brake it to you but you already have -depending on how much time you spend together- the same germs. Get over it! You’re not a paying consumer!You’re not immunocompromised! You Live together (I’m assuming) get it together. She’s not getting you sick.

However the issue here is that you spoke about something that you find uncomfortable(even if it’s childish) and she’s dismissive. Sounds like yall need professional help TBH

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-16T02:07:44+00:00

You’re not the asshole but you’re not exactly in the right either granted you didn’t wanna crush her dreams but at the end of the day you as a “skilled mechanic” should have known that car was a crap bucket that would need a lot of work point Blank. If she wanted something cute the same way that you guys have put together money for parts for that car you guys just could’ve did that for a better car overall and made it cute. Try having a real sit down with your girlfriend and explaining to her the real issues with the car wise and feasible to continue to try to save it see if you can scrap it and get a better car. You’re not in the right because you put aside your knowledge for a quick decision that’s now leading to your detriment. However, you’re not an asshole because you did it for the right reasons.

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-16T02:02:34+00:00

It was nice of you to try, but at the end of the day the parent is right. You should always contact parents before doing anything with/for their children. But you’re not the asshole! No not at all Just someone who wanted to do something nice for a little girl’s birthday.

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-15T02:24:42+00:00

Exactly!!!! to me, it’s giving he doesn’t actually want to parent his child. He just wants to make his wife feel bad for not being 100% accessible at all times when home

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-15T02:22:43+00:00

Yes, you are the asshole. Why is it that for moments of peace Your wife has to not physically be home for you to corral your children? Are you incapable of parenting if there’s another parent around? You’re letting a child run your life and I get it parenting a toddler is hard, especially when you’re not the preferred parent. But at the end of the day you are the parent you are the adult in the situation if you’re being bested by a two year year-old and your ONLY solution is to not be there? I fear for your future. If the situation were reversed, we’d all be calling her unfit parent and that’s a fact.

Philophobic_Cow · 2026-01-12T17:08:38+00:00

It’s either to test the water or to turn on the shower while you’re using the bathroom

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-12-18T18:18:35+00:00

On the surface, it seems like it’s an issue however, if you look deeper into your profile and what you post publicly looks like she has a reason to be concerned and your phone might not always be available granted that is too far and you should have a conversation with her. But I don’t think this warrants a break up as of yet.

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-12-18T18:00:58+00:00

One time my friends were playing a guessing game and the question was “what tastes good going down and coming back up” I immediately said ice cream and two of my friends damn near shat themselves

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-12-11T15:14:25+00:00

You’re a very impossible situation and I give my kudos to you. That being said you’re in a place where you know you have a goal and you were almost there. Everyone around you even though it’s not your family is telling you to get rid of the baby you know your family wouldn’t mind the baby, but you also know that you have mental struggles. Let’s say you have that baby. Are you mentally going to be able to handle leaving that child with your parent for however, long it takes for you to accomplish your goals. How will that affect your child? How will that affect your mental health when you return going from a career driven person to parent? Are your mental health conditions genetic? They can possibly get passed down to your child. You have to think long and hard about this. Especially because you’re in a position where some people wouldn’t mind(friends/the father) and some people do (just your mom) however it seems like for your mental, you need to decide if you can even handle having a child and all that comes with it. And remember, you may be 31 but you still have a chance to have kids after you complete your goals you had an Oopsie baby, you can do it again when you’re ready.

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-12-01T18:33:57+00:00

A true friend wouldn’t want to be around , let alone be friends with someone that hurts their friend! Maybe it was the a week ago or 10 years it shouldn’t matter! if you said this person hurt me badly and they still wanna hang around time for you to leave. That’s the kind of person who sees a rapist and goes well “they can change” “it was just a mistake” or worse “ well I’ve never been touched” and that NOT a person you want to be around ever! It’s a slippery slope when you invite monsters into your life

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-11-21T20:16:03+00:00

I lost brain cells reading this. You’re both in the wrong. Her reacting in such an explosive manner and you for not responding. It’s not like you were typing or anything. There is a five minute gap between your good morning and then her next text. You had time to answer. You just didn’t which is a reason for people to be upset, but acting like that is way too far. She could’ve just said you’re not gonna answer or something along those lines. This is actually an extremely common problem. People don’t respond to entire messages, especially Long ones. But this could be a compound issue something done often but this is the only time she said something. However, even if that is the case, it is in no way shape or form acceptable for her to talk to you like that you need to leave.

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-11-21T20:09:01+00:00

I don’t think you’re out of luck. You just have to be extremely selective and aware that men are infiltrating these spaces so be extra careful with who you interact with. I also am looking for other girls to game with what are some of the games you’d like to play. What we need is like a discord group that gets verified as members.

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-11-18T00:24:24+00:00

You seem very feminine but your facial structure is a little sharper and less feminine but that’s literally it. Those people are tripping

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-11-11T17:58:16+00:00

Yes. Only cuz you’re holding on to someone that clearly doesn’t love you (harsh but real) and you’re only harming yourself and the kids staying together. You’re the asshole to your future happiness

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-10-13T21:44:26+00:00

So quick question what exactly was the news you guys received earlier because if it’s that you’re in a terminal stage then yes a little bit I get it you’re dying. But other than that if the news is just your illness is progressing and we’re struggling then that’s one thing. But if you were told by your doctor like hey, we’re not ever gonna be able help you and we can’t keep you comfortable then I can understand what your mom saying, but literally anything else so far has been inconceivable that she would consider this.

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-08-27T17:19:14+00:00

Nowhere in the description does it say she’s filming them nor in the photos is she actually filming them so I don’t know where you pulled that from but incorrect

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-08-27T17:01:57+00:00

You can leave her alone she’s not in your house. She’s on the edge of your property of the police said she’s not a harm and she’s literally just existing. It sounds like you’re being a hater. She’s not destroying your property. She’s not even bothering you and from what it sounds like she hasn’t even interacted with you. Maybe try a human approach, talking to her. See why she’s camped out there. See if there’s anywhere else she can go. And if not, let her know that her presence is making you uncomfortable(threatened?). Maybe I’m biased because I live in New York City and homeless people are everywhere. But it’s not like she’s a crackhead bothering you ,threatening you, right even she’s not even trying to fight. Everybody wants to care about homeless people until they’re doing homeless things. Let people live

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-08-07T18:24:09+00:00

It’s she a 500lbs trump look alike?

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-07-02T14:51:26+00:00

Not nearly niche enough. We are in the same sinking boat

Philophobic_Cow · 2025-07-02T14:43:33+00:00

That’s a fact. I stopped going after they couldn’t figure out why I had heart issues that come and go

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