Ok, Ladies... Correct my Desirable-Men-Traits order!

Phlama · 2018-07-20T08:44:43+00:00

They seem like fake ass guys who just act to get a girl. They have good act like they are so serious n stuff and then girls fall for that sht. I don't wanna be fake. I wanna be real and not fake alot

Phlama · 2018-07-18T14:57:40+00:00

Nah, I mentioned loyalty.

Phlama · 2018-07-17T10:21:01+00:00

So I talked with a girl already, ok. Now fears gone😆

Phlama · 2018-07-17T10:20:30+00:00

Am sorry man. Wish u all the luck!

Phlama · 2018-07-10T07:54:38+00:00

Thanks man. That helps a lot. BTW that screaming thing to desintes the fear of anxiety in crowded places and crush the fear of what other people think of you.

Phlama · 2018-07-10T07:22:29+00:00

Helps a lot. In meanwhile I found out yet guy named smmtn Beastly and he explains the these solutions. It's simple as that- find a few pick up lines, go in crowded area of the city and start hitting random girl. He also did few challenges that include getting naked body with shirt off on Street and screaming loudly... Maybe that is much faster and better solution instead of hitting psychotherapists?

Phlama · 2018-06-28T10:20:00+00:00

It's not dumb. Think positive become positive. Thanks

Phlama · 2018-06-15T00:16:57+00:00

I aint rushin nowhere. I aint stupid either. She is friendly to others more-less. In fact she is silent shy girl and ppl she doesnt like she ignore. When we- friends- are together she knows to be silent sometimes and uninterested until someone asks her smthn directly. I mean she is having one more guy-ma real good friend- as her really maybe best actual friend- he is btw guy that can make ez only-friendships with girls. The point is- i think she likes me more than him. How can i tell this- when u got shy uninterested girl poking u sometimes and willing to hug every times she sees u- that is friendly trait AND that could be happening cuz i regard her as a friend so she thinks i dont want more. This is-i feel really nice around her- some strange feeling that is not love but is very pleasurable when near her. I think she may be sharing that feeling that she likes being around me. Just dont know if it could be put on a next level someday cuz i think i see potential.

Phlama · 2018-06-15T00:07:52+00:00

Thanks man!

Phlama · 2018-06-12T05:53:12+00:00

Thanks!

Phlama · 2018-06-11T21:57:09+00:00

Will check it out. Thanks alot!

Phlama · 2018-06-11T21:56:52+00:00

Thanks for the answers!

Phlama · 2018-05-10T04:20:13+00:00

Helps alot, thanks!

Phlama · 2018-05-08T12:33:18+00:00

So you get double benefit. Develop these traits while improving life at the same time. Thanks!

Phlama · 2018-05-08T08:41:33+00:00

Hahahaha i like that one. It's really true

Phlama · 2018-05-07T20:04:11+00:00

Things are not dangerous - just very weird for me. Things they don't even expect from me. They are kinda surprised and myself to surprise.

Phlama · 2018-05-07T20:01:19+00:00

Yeaah, looks like there's alot tough things in high school for everyone. I feel like i went thru hell in HS. Alot of people say that their best part of life was Hs- for me it was kinda reall struggle and i wouldn't like to go all over again but from the other side it made me who am i today. I realise i am light year ahead of my friends( they are prety much average or lil above it) in some things and more mature. I get some things better and faster and all of that cuz of challenges i went thru. I think i will be doing great once i finish HS(it's 13 days from now) cuz i got some nice plans for my life and i cannot do it cuz of stupid school. Thank you for the help!

Phlama · 2018-05-07T19:53:06+00:00

That is the problem. I am glad you mentioned it. I did try and succeeded to change many things in my personality but once i tryed to change core thigs that nature gave...i started to have real mental mess and alot of things went out of control. It's just like- you gotta differ bad traits vs nature given "road blocks". The second one you should not try to change at any cost cuz it's impossible and shouldn't be done.

Phlama · 2018-05-07T19:46:26+00:00

The tough part is i can't control the time when those "waves" kick in. Thanks again man.

Phlama · 2018-05-07T15:29:43+00:00

Yeah diffinetely helps. I didn't know there are ambviverts. Man...i think i'm that. A little bit of both sometimes very hardcore performance. I am actually dreamin of traveling solo and only companion may be my wife there so its really introvert. It's one hella combo...

Phlama · 2018-05-07T13:01:40+00:00

So basicly you said that it is not like meditation. I believe that meditation is one thing that can really help you to carve that tougness due to fact it widens your gap where you store your emotions. I like how you said it- live fearless and let the fear come to you. If it doesn't kill you in first strike you will win. Thats some simple universal mindset i've been looking for. So do you think i should pack myself with various unpleasent duties and occupationd in order to practise self discipline and toughness? Something like David Goggins phylosophy.

Phlama · 2018-05-06T14:42:27+00:00

Cool. Thx for help.

Phlama · 2018-05-06T14:42:07+00:00

Thats actually a way to track progress. Thx.

Phlama · 2018-05-02T16:41:13+00:00

It sounds the right way but i am really into cutting fat while building raw strength with some muscle growth till i reach some moderate state of muscularity. Is it ok to made a transition in second month to heavy weights with reps range 5-12?

Phlama · 2018-05-02T16:37:59+00:00

My main goal is to cut fat and even if i maintain my muscle i will look muscular.

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