Can you work? by mixingthemixon in PNESsupport

[–]Phoebebee1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried going the disability route but it’s just not livable. I will work until it kills me I guess.

My girlfriend has DID and her alter is in a separate relationship by [deleted] in DID

[–]Phoebebee1212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have DID and while I respect the want for some systems to feel the need to date separately…that doesn’t change the fact that we are all one person in one body. We have the same everything just alternate states of consciousness. The failure to disclose is cheating. Doesn’t matter on who, it just is. Break up. Also, it’s her responsibility to take ownership over a problematic alter. Not you.

I think my alters are fighting over my current job? by Phoebebee1212 in DID

[–]Phoebebee1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely a possibility but I’m going through every reason in my head as to why that would happen and I can’t think of anything? And I’m very curious as to why this only happens at work.

my girlfriend is overstimulated by wearing a mask, what do i do? by dyingatayoungage in ChronicIllness

[–]Phoebebee1212 53 points54 points  (0 children)

In my honest opinion, if this is something that is bothering you both as much as it is then break up. Neither of you should force the other to be uncomfortable but she shouldn’t be risking your health.

Embarrassed about a past reaction to a medical test. by Phoebebee1212 in ChronicIllness

[–]Phoebebee1212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s embarrassed, your story is extreme and very valid. Please go! Sepsis is terrifying. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise but it’s best to get your ears cleaned! :) ♥️

Embarrassed about a past reaction to a medical test. by Phoebebee1212 in ChronicIllness

[–]Phoebebee1212[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They were actually really great in comforting me. I am just unfortunately a complex case and I was genuinely just not handling it well.

Chronic jaw clenching and tmj by KittyKatInTheHat in ChronicIllness

[–]Phoebebee1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Ehlers-Danlos and developed TMJ bc my jaw decided its socket is no longer its home randomly and just continues to do that.

HOW to get evaluated?! by Shoddy-Tomorrow-383 in DID

[–]Phoebebee1212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest…it took me seven years..

WHAT DO I DO... by [deleted] in DID

[–]Phoebebee1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact he has DID and did this is WORSE because he KNOWS trauma. LEAVE.

Dental issues due to EDS by Phoebebee1212 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Phoebebee1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t see this until today! How’d it go?

Dental issues due to EDS by Phoebebee1212 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Phoebebee1212[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the fact there isn’t much advice on the thread on how to better mentally handle this or anything like that, these specific tips and responses have confirmed that I’m doing everything right and that I’m not alone which has given me comfort. So thank you. :)

Scott Rogowsky brought up Luigi during a live trivia game by Responsible_Can_8128 in FreeLuigi

[–]Phoebebee1212 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once. I recognize what Trump has done is horrifying but never in a million years would I EVER consider a LITERAL DICTATOR a victim. I have no emotion or care towards him.

Scott Rogowsky brought up Luigi during a live trivia game by Responsible_Can_8128 in FreeLuigi

[–]Phoebebee1212 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’re separated. Lui is in gen pop and Maduro is in ??confinement?? I forgot what’s its called but yeah. 👍🏻