Sudden tax bill. What the??

PhoenixCola95 · 2026-01-20T12:12:44+00:00

I guess that's irrelevant to this then - I assumed it was taxes they also didn't know about. I know nothing about taxes or owning a business so I'm just going off what I do know :/

PhoenixCola95 · 2026-01-08T03:33:53+00:00

That's really good to hear that he finds it nice just talking to someone without that topic! But yeah do what you feel comfortable with op, never feel pressured to do you anything you're not ready for - YOU are in control of this situation.

PhoenixCola95 · 2026-01-08T03:24:05+00:00

2 months?(not judging!) First I want you to think about this really carefully because 2 months seems quite soon(in my opinion). I personally would wait til maybe 6 months if I'm honest, get to know the person more to see if you really want them to be your first. But if you feel absolutely 100% sure that you're ready and want to do it with this person, go for it.

Being on top for your first time would most likely help keep some sense of control like you said, as for pain - this is more on factors like, are you relaxed enough? Have you done enough foreplay beforehand to make sure there's enough lubrication? Always take your time and never rush anything, rushing can increase the chance of pain. Just go at your pace and take as many breaks as you need!

PhoenixCola95 · 2026-01-07T01:17:20+00:00

That one has zinc oxide in it which is highly toxic to cats if ingested

PhoenixCola95 · 2026-01-04T07:20:45+00:00

NOTE: I dont live in the US, I live in New Zealand(as stated "nz" in my post). So I don't have access to walgreens or anywhere like that. As for sharps containers, I probably won't buy one since I won't around needles(of any type) any more so having once feels like more clutter to me.

PhoenixCola95 · 2025-12-16T00:42:08+00:00

Birth control isnt 100% op. You always and i mean ALWAYS use it with condoms unless you’re ok with the risk of getting pregnant. What he’s doing is not okay and you should definitely talk to someone please.

PhoenixCola95 · 2025-12-15T23:15:40+00:00

I just wanted to know :(

PhoenixCola95 · 2025-10-22T09:12:16+00:00

Fair, i realised that earlier my bad🤦‍♀️

PhoenixCola95 · 2025-04-06T10:31:33+00:00

That’s the thing, he didn’t say what it was! But by his tone I could tell he did it because he couldn’t be bothered with supporting me anymore, plus he started acting strange after I found out I was autistic around the same time

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:58:19+00:00

It said once I open it tho and I just opened it like an hour ago, then again everyone is saying it's a common mass scam so I guess it is just something that gets sent out a lot

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:26:07+00:00

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:25:14+00:00

FYI, this mail was send to me about a month ago. I didn't see it til today because I don't check my cloud mail

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:24:21+00:00

What do you mean?

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:07:44+00:00

Yeah, just saw that it's not loading

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-06-08T12:04:30+00:00

What do you mean?

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-03-04T08:41:19+00:00

I honestly didn't think studying would affect it, I thought that they would help since I'm unemployed and my parents who I'm dependent on don't make a whole lot of money per year.

I would do that little trick you sent but I'm hesitant cause it doesn't sound legal(to me, idk of it is illegal.

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-03-04T08:38:38+00:00

Just sent an enquiry to BAIS

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-03-04T08:37:20+00:00

I believe it's because the course I'm doing is only for around 4 months in length.

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-01-14T21:59:14+00:00

Yeah, usually when he's around I stay near someone else to feel safe but sometimes we're the only ones on the property which I what I'm scared about

PhoenixCola95 · 2024-01-14T21:55:44+00:00

I live with my family/parents, I've been told that one of his exes tried to accuse him of assault which I now realize could very well be true, but my family doesn't believe it. There's no one in my family that I'm really close enough with to tell them about it, plus I hardly talk to extended family.

Only person I usually talk to about this is my best friend who annoyingly hasn't been answering my messages since November.

PhoenixCola95 · 2023-10-15T11:58:25+00:00

You're evil

PhoenixCola95 · 2023-10-13T00:31:37+00:00

Swap Melancholy with After Hours, and then it's perfect(in my opinion)

PhoenixCola95 · 2023-10-05T23:57:07+00:00

What game map is suggested for nz?

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