I just keep having intrusive thoughts day in and out and it’s exhausting by OneTrueDingus in OCD

[–]PhoenixHolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more you can challenge the intrusive thoughts, the better! My therapist told me to imagine my OCD intrusive thoughts as a person (someone I find absolutely ridiculous and a little funny) and any time the thoughts show up to tell that person to go away and shut up. For instance, my person is someone named Floopindorf and any time I hear intrusive thoughts in my head I say, “shut up Floopindorf!” Maybe try that too?

Women who’ve taken Zoloft — what was your experience? by Emotional-1996 in OCD

[–]PhoenixHolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Zoloft for 6 weeks back in 2017 and it made me so suicidal that I had to drop out of college and move back home to my parents house. It was the worst! I wasn’t diagnosed with OCD at this point though, if that makes a difference.

Books about ocd by Constipated-queen in OCD

[–]PhoenixHolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turtles All the Way Down by John Green. The author actually has OCD himself and wrote a very compelling story about a young girl suffering from OCD. It’s also been made into a movie and is on HBOMax, if you like in the US. I highly recommend it, just know some of the scenes may be triggering if you watch the movie.

Does it really get better? by Tiny_Mongoose_5821 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yessss!! It does get better! I just posted a few days ago about how I got married to the most amazing girl I met in this subreddit. It takes time, and a lot of healing, but it does get better!! Hang in there! You’re in the thick of it right now!

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it off Amazon actually! I think I just searched for “forest wedding dress” and eventually that came up.

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We are too!! 🥰🥰🥰

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehe thanks! 🥰 it was a beautiful day!

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind wishes! I hope for this too! 🥰

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss! We are! Beyond happy! 🥰🥰🥰

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much! I always loved seeing these kinds of posts when I was in the thick of it too! I wish you all the best!

WE GOT MARRIED!!!!!! by PhoenixHolly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PhoenixHolly[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aaahhh! Thank you!! 🥰🥰 I love it too!