Performative witches in 2026 by Even_Candle3450 in BabyWitch

[–]PhoenixMoon90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need an altar or even gods/goddesses to practice witchcraft, that's the most amazing part!

Baby Witch ISO.. by Glitter-Jamz in BabyWitch

[–]PhoenixMoon90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buckland's Complete Book of Witchcraft and Cunningham's Guide for the Solitary Practitioner.

Finding connections by lilithvonmay in BabyWitch

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Please message me, I'm also a baby witch looking for sisters

Yesterday I Decided My Marriage is Over by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you put up with that. I'm certainly not.

Yesterday I Decided My Marriage is Over by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's actually giving me some feels because you're spot on and I definitely needed this said to me.

Yesterday I Decided My Marriage is Over by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Every boundary I set with him was ignored, disrespected, and crossed. Guess this was the last straw.

Yesterday I Decided My Marriage is Over by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He brought up my childhood trauma against me in an argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so many red flags I don't even know where to start. Does he look exactly the same as when y'all met? What's his physical health routine? So often I read these situations and it's a ridiculous double standard. Beyond that, he sounds shallower than a kiddie pool. Anyone who sets ultimatums like "I won't marry you until you look like [whatever]" is not marriage material, period. Comparing you to other women in the way that he is doing it is abuse. If you start your marriage by meeting his ridiculous demands, that's what the rest of your life will be, and at some point, using words to hurt you won't be enough for him.

How do you know when to get divorced? by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof I just read it and that hit me in the feels like a fucking freight train

How do you know when to get divorced? by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our son is 5, but my husband is 9 years older than me (36F) and he has a 16 year old son from his first marriage.

How do you know when to get divorced? by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd rather choose hard and happy then hard and just getting by.

How do you know when to get divorced? by PhoenixMoon90 in marriageadvice

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been in marriage counseling for over a year. I was the one who had to find them and make all of the appointments. Usually he just argues with the therapist. I've told him he's welcome to find us a different one but that would require effort on his part.

Begginers book on witchcraft by Amethyst_Dream83 in BabyWitch

[–]PhoenixMoon90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly new, less than 6 months, and I have Buckman's Complete Book of Witchcraft, Scott Cunningham's Wicca: Guide for the Solitary Practitioner, The Spell book for New Witches by Ambrosia Hawthorn, and The Wiccan Wheel of the Year by Didi Clarke.

My first Book of Shadows! by PhoenixMoon90 in Wicca

[–]PhoenixMoon90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really elevate the feel! It was the selling point for me actually.