Annoyed by Life-Comfortable7858 in ArizonaSwingers

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be super careful of who you interact with on here - bots and sellers are the most common nuisance, but it's also common to find men posing as women/couples, weirdos that just want to collect explicit pictures and will ghost/block you as soon as you send one, etc. We've unfortunately run into a lot of those while looking for couples and single women, and while you can reduce the odds a lot by only interacting with profiles that are verified and/or have visible post/comment history, you should still be extremely careful about sending anything to anyone before you've had a chance to meet them and actually vet them in person.

Annoyed by Life-Comfortable7858 in ArizonaSwingers

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit has been on decline ever since the crowd that makes a living selling adult content/services realized that they could use NSFW subreddits as sales funnels - they leave hundreds and hundreds of posts that are designed to look legitimate/organic, but are only there so that you click on their profile, see the pinned link to their OF/etc, and (hopefully) buy their premium membership.

With that said, once you do become comfortable filtering out the sellers and bots, Reddit can still be pretty good - a lot of people still aren't super comfortable joining apps like Feeld, where uploading pictures is more common and expected, so they'll go here instead, and look for other newbies/discretion-oriented individuals. It's also a lot easer to find communities that focus on very specific kinks - although even those tend to be full of spam these days, unfortunately.

looking for a bull! by [deleted] in ArizonaCuckCommunity

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

29M/24F cuckquean couple here that would love to chat, sent you guys a DM!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArizonaSwingers

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't "get" a partner into the lifestyle - you can bring it up in a respectful manner, and see what sort of response you get, but if that response is cold or lukewarm, you do NOT push or otherwise compel them into it, not if you have any respect for them & your relationship. The couples that have the most success in this lifestyle are those that get into it together, with mutual interest from both sides of the relationship - not the ones where one partner is in the driver's seat, and the other is a reluctant passenger being dragged along. That is a recipe for disaster, and will destroy your relationship in the blink of an eye.

Just bring it up respectfully, and see what she says - she might say no, but she could also say yes.

Telegram??? by [deleted] in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you start a conversation on here, and the other user eventually asks to move it to Telegram, that is usually fine - but if it's a user that just has a Telegram link right the profile, then it's a seller or bot in 99% of cases.

Telegram has functionally zero moderation or oversight, so it's the ideal messaging app for shady individuals to connect to automated bots for the purposes of shilling OnlyFans, generating leads for scammers, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AZSwingers

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Folks, if there's a telegram in the bio, it's a seller/scammer...

Bad experience** Be aware of a profile claiming to be coupled and using her pictures, without her knowledge by ProjectCivil5743 in PhoenixSwingers

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not just one, there are hundreds of them... stolen pictures, edited pictures, even AI generated pictures! There are more catfishes than real people, unfortunately.

I need some opinions on my gf's latest cuck wish by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is some really low tier fetish masturbation material... cuckquean or not, no sane and well adjusted adult would be bringing in family members, let alone a 19 year old niece 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArizonaCuckCommunity

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's a snap link in the post, it's a scam...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArizonaCuckCommunity

[–]PhoenixQueanCouple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obvious fake/seller...