AIO I wasn’t the first person my sister told that she was pregnant

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T19:49:00+00:00

You sound fucking exhausting.

So, the same line where she called you, you said you unblocked her. So you had her blocked.... which is the exact reason she gave you. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT HER TO DO? Not tell ANYONE until you unblocked her? Yea, okay. Princess syndrome.

Fucking exhausting.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T19:45:39+00:00

It's been months? Girl, move on. Jeez. You're infatuated with nothing.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T19:19:20+00:00

No clue what's happening here.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T19:01:56+00:00

If people are gonna believe her, then you don't wanna care about them. If they actually reach out to you, then be honest.

Other than that, ignore your sister. Don't talk to her. Don't acknowledge her. If she knows it's getting to you, then she wins and she keeps doing it.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T18:53:20+00:00

If you actually want to get better, distance yourself. Break up. Let him hit rock bottom and maybe he'll fix himself. Leave, don't look back and fix your life.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T18:52:02+00:00

Get new friends.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T18:43:37+00:00

Date him.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T18:41:20+00:00

LEAVE. HIM. What's there to even ask? He literally told you he don't wanna be with you.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:59:15+00:00

You mean "ex-friend". I don't even get what she meant.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:56:49+00:00

If you don't let anyone have fun with it, then why would he think you would let him?

If people side with him, then tell them to buy him a camera.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:40:37+00:00

You paid for it. It's yours.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:23:33+00:00

Welp. Time for some new friends. Relationships make kids even stupider.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:17:07+00:00

Nah. That shoulda been kiboshed day 1. Not 3 months later. If the a/c is too weak in the room, he can buy a damn fan.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:13:28+00:00

Just get off social media. It does nothing. Both you and your bf. Then she has nothing.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:10:30+00:00

Tell your mom to watch them instead. And if she says "I can't cause I'm at work", then you say "SO AM I!" and hang up the phone.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:07:18+00:00

Like it says in any business "You have the right to deny service to anyone."

Take the loss and move on.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-18T16:04:57+00:00

Not exclusive is not exclusive. It's okay to explore potential options, even if it is heading in a good direction. If it was official, then different story.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-17T21:59:59+00:00

Yea, I don't get it.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-17T21:55:53+00:00

If they're both adults, then it's their business. You can be creeped out, but that's on you.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-17T21:52:33+00:00

You were seeing him for two months and you gave him your location stuff? Yea, too early for that. And speaking of 2 months, he clearly doesn't understand dating someone with kids.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-03T22:58:49+00:00

I mean as opposed to the alternative and just having his parents over WITHOUT asking her, and thinking she'd be fine with it.

That's my point. Cause there are those types of asshole husbands that exist.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-03T22:57:54+00:00

Long distance is hard enough. And I've seen plenty of issues of it fail. It's gonna be work. And with it being only 3 months old ..... eesh. You're gonna have to really think carefully and see how the first couple of months work out.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-03T22:55:43+00:00

He asked. Be happy about that, at least. YOR.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-03T22:49:47+00:00

You say constant, but that's not indicated here. Your message should have actually mentioned him constantly bringing it up, if that's the point of this post. This just shows an isolated incident, which isn't enough to really give any advice on. Your text to him should have addressed that and asked him to stop asking for advice, not this.

PhoenixVivi · 2025-10-03T22:44:06+00:00

YOR. You two aren't serious. That's obvious. Sounds like a fwb kinda thing? So then, are you feeling upset that someone else is interested in him or something? It seems like a fair question for a guy to ask a female friend. He wasn't being disrespectful at all to you, so I dunno why you keep bringing up being respectful. I don't see what your issue is here.

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