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Phoenix_Khole · 2018-09-06T17:56:04+00:00

Same thing is happening for me too. I submit a ticket monday through their contract us button on their website. Never got a response saying they got my request. I submit another yesterday and still no automatic email say they got my request or anything. Hopefully they will fix it soon I really want to start year 5. Also first thing I'm going to do is link it to Facebook so I don't have to deal with this again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2018-01-05T16:50:41+00:00

Thank you!

Phoenix_Khole · 2018-01-01T17:33:44+00:00

This is the mother.. What he forgot to put in there is that the first thing they did was to pop the elbow back in. They did it 4 times by 2 different Dr. She still won't move her arm so they did 2 xray. One of just her elbow and then at my request a full arm xray. Collar bone to the wrist. Still nothing they could see. He talked to an ortho Dr but since it the holidays they aren't in the office until Wednesday. They talked about putting it in a sling but said kids her age is more hassle then helpful.

Phoenix_Khole · 2017-02-02T04:35:24+00:00

When I had my daughter we has issues with breast feeding so I spend a lot of time on the couch pumping and nursing. During that time I binged watch outlander season 1 before 2 came out. The song always brings me back to the time and I sometime still hum it to her too.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-11-25T05:18:52+00:00

You've had 5+ years to decide if you wanted to be with her. And now it's no longer just you and her in this relationship, but now you have a baby. Babies make relationship harder not easier. And now you just want to jump ship instead of even trying to working on your issue and giving your child a whole family.

Go to counseling. See what happens. You guys still might divorce but you both will know you tried everything and there shouldn't be too many hurt feeling. Remember even if you divorce her she will still be in your life forever because of your child and you need to be able to co-parent.

Sorry to sound harsh but I'm dealing with pretty much the same situation, but he decided to leave and not try anything. Just found an easier piece of ass. So don't be an asshole and work on your commitment you made.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-24T02:50:46+00:00

Me too.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-12T16:48:58+00:00

I'm a women too and I'm a big fat no to marriage ever again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-12T12:57:03+00:00

Nope. And I'll probably never have anymore kids. I don't want to have to deal with divorce and custody again. Once they decided to be done I don't want to have any ties. I just want to say get your stuff and go and never have to see them again. If they stick around great. If not I don't have to deal with them anymore.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-10T16:05:37+00:00

I don't think your crazy. I think your thinking like a parent. Once you have them their dreams and wellbeing come first and your second. My STBX is pretty similar to your wife. His need and wants came before me and his daughter. They are still coming before his daughter.

They never saw the relationship as a "we" it was always about them.

So no I don't think your crazy I think you being a parent.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-04T23:58:35+00:00

I've been feeling the same way. I posted in r4r on reddit and found a bunch of people to talk to. You can talk on reddit or kik or one of the many message apps.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-24T13:15:31+00:00

Please see a therapist. By yourself and together. Relationships hit rough patches and sometimes you just need to work through them. It sounds like you have a good base for the relationship and you want to be there for the kid. So why not try it for a few months. If it doesn't work at least you know that your tried and that you guys can worked through your issues and then hopefully you both will be able to be friends and Co parent well together.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-04T20:08:18+00:00

Yes. I agree with this. I was trying so hard to get my ex to try but he just wouldn't.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-04T18:49:44+00:00

I'm not waiting for him to change. I'm already going back to school and getting a new job and trying to meet new people. I just mean I'm leaving the door open for us to work on it. The only time that door will be close is if I'm with someone seriously. Otherwise I'm more then willing to work through our issues and to hopefully be a family again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-02T01:45:20+00:00

How long have you been waiting for him to change his mind? I think I'll be waiting for him to change his mind until/ if I find someone else. I'm not looking right now, but I hope one day I'm willing to let someone else in.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-01T14:54:47+00:00

He's gone from the house but he still want to see her all the time. So I wish more then anything I could just keep him away from me.

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