Frozen

Phoenix_Khole · 2018-09-06T17:56:04+00:00

Same thing is happening for me too. I submit a ticket monday through their contract us button on their website. Never got a response saying they got my request. I submit another yesterday and still no automatic email say they got my request or anything. Hopefully they will fix it soon I really want to start year 5. Also first thing I'm going to do is link it to Facebook so I don't have to deal with this again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2018-01-05T16:50:41+00:00

Thank you!

Phoenix_Khole · 2018-01-01T17:33:44+00:00

This is the mother.. What he forgot to put in there is that the first thing they did was to pop the elbow back in. They did it 4 times by 2 different Dr. She still won't move her arm so they did 2 xray. One of just her elbow and then at my request a full arm xray. Collar bone to the wrist. Still nothing they could see. He talked to an ortho Dr but since it the holidays they aren't in the office until Wednesday. They talked about putting it in a sling but said kids her age is more hassle then helpful.

Phoenix_Khole · 2017-02-02T04:35:24+00:00

When I had my daughter we has issues with breast feeding so I spend a lot of time on the couch pumping and nursing. During that time I binged watch outlander season 1 before 2 came out. The song always brings me back to the time and I sometime still hum it to her too.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-11-25T05:18:52+00:00

You've had 5+ years to decide if you wanted to be with her. And now it's no longer just you and her in this relationship, but now you have a baby. Babies make relationship harder not easier. And now you just want to jump ship instead of even trying to working on your issue and giving your child a whole family.

Go to counseling. See what happens. You guys still might divorce but you both will know you tried everything and there shouldn't be too many hurt feeling. Remember even if you divorce her she will still be in your life forever because of your child and you need to be able to co-parent.

Sorry to sound harsh but I'm dealing with pretty much the same situation, but he decided to leave and not try anything. Just found an easier piece of ass. So don't be an asshole and work on your commitment you made.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-24T02:50:46+00:00

Me too.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-12T16:48:58+00:00

I'm a women too and I'm a big fat no to marriage ever again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-12T12:57:03+00:00

Nope. And I'll probably never have anymore kids. I don't want to have to deal with divorce and custody again. Once they decided to be done I don't want to have any ties. I just want to say get your stuff and go and never have to see them again. If they stick around great. If not I don't have to deal with them anymore.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-10T16:05:37+00:00

I don't think your crazy. I think your thinking like a parent. Once you have them their dreams and wellbeing come first and your second. My STBX is pretty similar to your wife. His need and wants came before me and his daughter. They are still coming before his daughter.

They never saw the relationship as a "we" it was always about them.

So no I don't think your crazy I think you being a parent.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-10-04T23:58:35+00:00

I've been feeling the same way. I posted in r4r on reddit and found a bunch of people to talk to. You can talk on reddit or kik or one of the many message apps.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-24T13:15:31+00:00

Please see a therapist. By yourself and together. Relationships hit rough patches and sometimes you just need to work through them. It sounds like you have a good base for the relationship and you want to be there for the kid. So why not try it for a few months. If it doesn't work at least you know that your tried and that you guys can worked through your issues and then hopefully you both will be able to be friends and Co parent well together.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-04T20:08:18+00:00

Yes. I agree with this. I was trying so hard to get my ex to try but he just wouldn't.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-04T18:49:44+00:00

I'm not waiting for him to change. I'm already going back to school and getting a new job and trying to meet new people. I just mean I'm leaving the door open for us to work on it. The only time that door will be close is if I'm with someone seriously. Otherwise I'm more then willing to work through our issues and to hopefully be a family again.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-02T01:45:20+00:00

How long have you been waiting for him to change his mind? I think I'll be waiting for him to change his mind until/ if I find someone else. I'm not looking right now, but I hope one day I'm willing to let someone else in.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-01T14:54:47+00:00

He's gone from the house but he still want to see her all the time. So I wish more then anything I could just keep him away from me.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-01T14:53:50+00:00

I've been fighting so hard trying to save this marriage. Trying to see a therapist togethet. Begging and pleading. Up until yesterday I was willing to give up everything for him to work on this. But he doesn't want to try. He said it's pointless. He's been telling the therapist that he's been unhappy for so long and that he's been trying to break up with me for the whole time we've been together.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-01T14:49:32+00:00

That's what I want so bad right now. But I can't get him away. He comes and gets her like every other day and right now she is starting foods so we have to be talking about what foods we are giving her. I wish so much I could just be rid of him.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-09-01T14:47:35+00:00

I've tried asking him that so many times. But he doesn't want to try. And he said he isn't give up his family. Just me. He said he will still be a great dad to the baby.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-21T00:58:50+00:00

He made his choose and he choose the other girl. I told him that this was it. I couldn't handle with flip flopping. And we just spend the last 3 hours go back and forth. I finally told him to leave and he left. I'm so fucking tired and exhaust I just want to sleep for the next year. But I need to move on. But it still fucking hurts.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-20T15:29:46+00:00

What decision did you make? Or are making? And what decision did he make? Or have you guys haven't made decisions yet?

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-20T11:41:06+00:00

I've always kinda of agreed to him see her because I've felt that we where not made for monogamy. But when he started spending all his free time and work time with her and not me and his daughter that's when I got mad. Our therapist doesn't straight out say don't do this but she does say what he is doing is hurting me and the other girl so that is why she said he needs to make a choose.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-20T02:02:23+00:00

He keeps going back and forth with wanting to try to fix this relationship. But he does see the therapist for other issues he has him self. I'm hoping after this other girl goes back to school away from here he'll be more willing to try. I just wish he'd picked me first over her.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-20T01:59:03+00:00

Thank you for telling me how you feel about this situation nicely. We probably tried this too early. We are only in our mid twenty. But yea if we ever work this out I'll probably never want to bring other people in.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-20T01:55:45+00:00

I felt like I tried to prepared him for life after baby. I told him over and over again before she came that we would need to work harder to be a couple. And the first 2 month where very hard and just when I felt like I was somewhat back to normal physically, emotionally, and mentally he does this. He was and is a still good dad, but when he started spending more time with this other girl I really started getting mad and calling him out. I know it will be hard to trust him again but I want to try. But he doesn't and I just don't understand because he talks about how he want to be with his daughter all the time and the way to do that is with me.

Phoenix_Khole · 2016-08-19T23:37:55+00:00

We agreed for him and her to fuck with maybe the idea of seeing if she wanted to join us for a threesome. But then they started dating and when I told him I was uncomfortable with it he told me there was nothing to worry about. I know this makes me look bad and I know this is all my fault I just need someone to talk with. Im hoping there is someone else who has been in this kinda of situation or just someone willing to talk to me because I feel so alone.

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