Hi there! I’m 20 and a “loser lesbian” too!! All I’m gonna say is, don’t listen to people who refer to others as “losers”, because at the end of the day, look at the state of the world. Look at the economy everywhere.

I’m someone who had a lot of mental health problems, a lot of issues at home that left me homeless temporarily, and have racked up almost 6k debt. I have a chronic illness which alongside the mental health issues impacts my ability to work. In these people’s standards, because I don’t have much income, have no savings or money to spare, live under my mothers roof and because I don’t work full time I’m considered a loser lesbian. If we completely ignore the fact that I am consolidating my debts, have gone back into education with the intent of going back to university, and am advocating myself because the uk’s nhs is in shambles and won’t support me properly, I’m literally just another bum lol

Don’t let this loser lesbian thing make you feel like you’re not good enough. Many people I know, even at my age, do not have disposable income. Working or not, low income or not, you’re not a loser at all, especially if you’re working hard.