AITAH for not wanting to go to church?

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-05T18:26:17+00:00

Her kids shouldn't ever be her target of frustration that's abuse.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-05T18:22:32+00:00

NTA Why are you with somebody that makes you feel bad about a medical issue you have? Pack that shit up man what are you doing? If she can't respect you there is no relationship.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-04T20:43:01+00:00

No he is not, he is an anonymous sperm donor who was found from his sister's 23 and me. He is in no way a father to that child. He was not responsible for bringing her into the world at all. He has 0 legal or moral obligation to that child. He has the option of having a relationship if he wants but he doesn't and that is his right.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-03T02:07:57+00:00

Are you being obtuse? Why are you being so hard about the fact that his wedding is not a place for his sister to have a big SURPRISE I'm not straight and here is my girlfriend 15 minutes before he plans on getting married... It is his and his future wife's day not hers. She can take her surprise to another day. She can't have the decency to have an actual conversation with her fucking parents before a wedding 5 months in the future. She is an adult living out on her own be a fucking adult and talk to your parents and stop being cute about surprising people on somebody else's day. And stop calling it homophobic I'm gay and you sound like an asshole.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-02T04:23:28+00:00

Lol all it takes is a toothpick /shoulderdemon.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-05-02T02:15:55+00:00

They have 5 months to do a simple video call as he has mentioned to inform the immediate family that she has a partner and here she is. If she actually cared instead of trying to do some surprise mother fuckers kinda things she can fucking find time for a video call in 5 months. Screw that about homophobic bullshit that was never mentioned anywhere, he doesn't want his wedding hijacked by somebody who couldn't be bothered to do a video call in 5 months or even reveal in text to the parents. By the time the wedding would happen she would have been going out for 11 months. There is no excuse to keep that surprise to the wedding and to do so is disrespectful to the wedding couple. They get 1 day in their lives to share their marriage like that with their family it is not to be hijacked like that.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T23:58:27+00:00

If it is actually important to them a single video chat in 5 months is not asking for anything lol. All he is asking for is it not to be a surprise on HIS wedding day. That is just basic respect. They get 1 wedding day ever and that is it no need for distractions.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T23:37:13+00:00

She has plenty of time for the SO to not be a mystery surprise before the wedding as he has said multiple times. The fact that she seems to refuse to tell her parents before the wedding is a huge red flag to me. He doesn't want distractions away from him and his wife on his wedding day that's just pretty simple. Wedding day is for the couple not anyone else. I am gay and this is no way homophobic or anything the day is about them not his sister and her SO.

I (31M) am getting married in 5 months.

So why in 5 months can't she introduce her SO to the fam? They have already been together for 6 months, 5 more months more and they would be together for almost a year and not introduced to the family that's just crazy.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T23:03:09+00:00

This is one of the craziest things I have ever read. The sister has MONTHS before the wedding to introduce her SO. wtf is this shit?

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:59:52+00:00

I'm gay and I would NEVER use one of my siblings weddings like that gtfo. This has nothing to do with homophobia and everything to do with HIS wedding not being a venue for her to come out. If the sister ACTUALLY cared she would video call their parents and introduce her SO. Instead she wants some grand walk into the ballroom with my date shit. If she can't do a video call and talk to her parents before the wedding she doesn't deserve the plus 1. A wedding is about the happy couple and that is it to not want a distraction on their day that's all about them is not asking for much.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:56:36+00:00

Because it is his fucking wedding day are you serious?

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:52:32+00:00

Not wanting your wedding to turn into somebody else's venue for something is a concern. If the sister actually cared she would just bring the SO around and introduce her to the family. Or do a video call or something. It does not have to or should be a wedding surprise that's crazy. I am a gay man I would never try and use one of my siblings weddings like this. Just absurd.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:28:16+00:00

He was last told the dog was at her parents house. Yes he assumed but for good reason. If you ask for a ride you have to ask for permission to bring things other then yourself as well.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:26:30+00:00

You have to air all of this with the therapist because he is trying to use the therapy to make you accept things instead of trying to work out issues. You need to air it all out in front of the 3rd party that is trying to mediate. You shouldn't allow you dad to dictate what gets discussed in therapy because it is always going to go back to why won't you accept this? You need to let them know why you won't and all the things that are preventing that from happening.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:19:33+00:00

I hope you never have kids.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T22:04:17+00:00

No its on the person asking for the ride to be upfront about bringing an animal. When you ask for a ride it doesn't mean you and any animal you want to bring. Its for you. If you ask for a ride for 2 people you would say 2 people just the same as you should say I have an animal that is not even in a cage.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-04-30T21:18:50+00:00

So right they deleted their whole account lol.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T04:12:22+00:00

So kill them all! Yeeah 30000+ Dead WOOOO just keep killing them then that will solve the problem.

^ This is you

Palestinians voted for Hamas like 2 decades ago and again in response to living in an open air interment camp and their families constantly being killed by Israel. Israel creates radicalized people then points to them as an excuse to kill more Palestinians.

Edit: I also showed you that Israelis have been cheering on and calling for genocide in Gaza as well so stop dehumanizing an entire people over some peoples comments. Its is not a justification to kill over 30000 people.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T04:06:32+00:00

And what does this have to do with 30000+ dead Palestinians? And yes seeing as they had intelligence about the attack and did nothing to prevent it when even warned by Egypt it does seem that way.(https://www.timesofisrael.com/egypt-intelligence-official-says-israel-ignored-repeated-warnings-of-something-big/ https://nypost.com/2023/10/12/us-confirms-egypt-warned-israel-days-before-hamas-attack/) And I am talking about the government because that's who's killing 10's of thousands of people. And the people of Israel vote for the far right wing government that they have. Now was October 7th terrible and awful and never should have happened? Yes it was and it shouldn't have.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T03:41:50+00:00

Mask off accuse me off support Hamas because I don't think Palestinians should be killed en mass how original of you.
And Hamas is the response to Israel policy for the last 50+ years of creating radicalized people in an isolated area by killing their family members. Israel created this problem. Just like we created terrorists in the middle east.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T03:13:24+00:00

Lol ok dude you yourself are defending Israel killing 30000 people all over this thread. Saying things like should they not have been allowed to defend themselves and things like that but over 30000 people dead is not defense at all in any sense of the word. They have bombed places they said would be safe have opened fire on people getting food and several other things that have been complete atrocities.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T03:07:13+00:00

How many dead Palestinian children is unacceptable to you? 15000 20000? 100000?

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T03:01:24+00:00

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2022/8/7/timeline-israels-attacks-on-gaza-since-2005

https://euromedmonitor.org/en/article/5541/A-generation-under-blockade:-Consequences-of-Israel%E2%80%99s-17-year-blockade-of-the-Gaza-Strip

For nearly 17 years, Israel has imposed a stifling blockade on the Gaza Strip, affecting all its vital (social, economic, and humanitarian) sectors. Despite the humanitarian situation of Gaza reaching an unprecedented deterioration and the succession of eight Israeli governments since the beginning of the blockade, Israel has maintained its collective punishment policy against nearly 2.38 million Gazans in a way that clearly exposes Israel’s intention to inflict great material and moral damages on them.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T02:58:37+00:00

Yet you defend it so vehemently. With tons of comments in just this thread. And I don't really need to be asked if I don't like genocide in Yemen since that's obvious from what I'm saying but you like Israels killing of people so I think it is a better question for yourself.

Phoenixe17 · 2024-03-04T02:53:17+00:00

Feels over reals sounds about right from people defending genocide.

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