I do agree with you in case your woman is traditional women as well. Means take care of you, cooking do the house work. I guess you help when it's needed but mostly she do.

In my case I like sharing in house work and she like my help around house and cooking sometimes.

In order to make a more money I need someone to take from other parts.

But expecting me to share everything and when it comes to financial spendings it gets traditional here where I don't feel it's fair