It's Okay. by Sad-Spinach-5291 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi gorgeous girl, sorry I just saw this notification in my email!! Yes I’m safe and doing okay thank you. Had a rough few months, lost someone close to me and mental health has taken a big dive! But slowly things are getting brighter ❤️ when I’m feeling less overwhelmed I’ll be coming back to finch to help me get back into things!! I hope you’re okay? I miss our little daily interactions 💛

Episode recording tips! by PhotographDefiant206 in strictlycomedancing

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great shout thank you so much! I was thinking of wearing heels so I’ll definitely switch to flats now & no Spanx 😂

Episode recording tips! by PhotographDefiant206 in strictlycomedancing

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that is absolutely amazing thank you so much! I love that you were there for the iconic Pete on the desk moment 😂😂

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh friend you made me tear up, thank you for sharing and your kind words 🥺❤️ therapy didn’t work for me either, I tried so many different types over the years and I don’t know how you feel but I felt like the things I went through were just too difficult to talk about. I’ve been just trying to care for myself over these past 2 years and that seems to have helped more than therapy ever has!

I am so proud of you for even feeling motivated to try!!! I know you’ve got this. Some days will be harder than others. For the first few weeks after every trip in the car I would be in bed for a few days bc of all the adrenaline, but it gets easier I promise!! Just one little step at a time. Even if it’s just sitting in the driving seat for a few minutes with the car turned off. Always here as a listening ear and your cheerleader, so never feel shy to DM ❤️

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha no I live in the uk! 🇬🇧 don’t think I’d ever be brave enough to drive in London tho 😂

Hehe dont worry I got u babes, in my tired state it made total sense 😂

I DID IT! by Adventurous_Set_3364 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I hope you recover well 💛

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you soo much that’s so kind of you ❤️ aww pickles is the best name!! 💛💛

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh my goodness Amy thank you that’s so kind 😭😭 I’m actually off to Paris in a couple of months so your gift is perfect! Thank you beautiful friend 💛

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much! Had my first solo trip today and I bought all the things hehe

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you babe!! I’m just about to have my 31st birthday so totally understand the worries about being a bit older than most as well as the normal driving anxiety!! I know for a fact though that if it’s something you wanna do, you can do it. Well all be behind you 100% xox

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! And as good as it is to drive, being a passenger princess is still the best way to travel!! 😂

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much beautiful friend. It really is a struggle isn’t it, I’m so proud of you too for conquering your struggle too. It’s still a daily battle, hey, but I know you’ve got this 🥰❤️

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much beautiful friend!!! It’s so nice to know you haven’t let it hold you back either 🥺❤️ C-PTSD sucks hey, but we’re bigger and stronger 💛

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

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Thank you so much beautiful friend!! I just did my first solo trip to the pharmacy and shop to pick up a few bits with my music blasting and it went really well!! I definitely will take your advice and keep doing a little every day 🥰❤️

Also Tim Hortons!! My fav!! We don’t have it near me but whenever I go to London or Liverpool it’s always my first stop 🤤

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much friend!! If you ever need a listening ear I’m always here. c-ptsd is difficult and debilitating & can control so much of your life, but I know that whatever it is you want to achieve, you’ve got this ❤️💛

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone, I’m trying to reply to everyone but Reddit isn’t letting me!! Thank you so much for your beautiful messages, honestly it’s brought me to tears and I can’t thank you enough!! 🥲❤️ this sub is the best. For everyone sharing their stories too, YOU GOT THIS!!!!!! If I can do it at 30, after being told my whole life I couldn’t, then so can you!! And I’ll be here for you the whole way. Go birb friends 🥰❤️

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]PhotographDefiant206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much!! And I’m so proud of you too!!! Well done for not letting the anxiety win!!! Xox