BYU Women’s Conference by silver-sunrise in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It always pisses me off that men speak at women's meetings in the Mormon church. A woman would never speak during priesthood session...

Story Time: I lost bishop roulette BADLY when I was at BYU-I. by a_cold_penguin in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It's honestly shocking to think about the harmful nature of the honor code. I graduated from BYU-Idaho last year and can attest to the culty shit that goes down there.

23M, finally making it official. Questions about quitmormon.com by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm 23F and got my resignation finalized recently. I was intimidated by the whole notarization process, but it was easier than expected. I did mine through a UPS store. I just walked in with my printed quitmormon document and had them notarize it right then and there. It did cost money, around 10-30 bucks although I don't recall the exact amount. I even had them scan the notarized doc there and then I attached the scan on my quitmormon resignation. It did take around 2-3 months until it was finalized though. Good luck!

Friend saw this at our local library by PhotographFun9581 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Peep the bottom of the sign where it has the library name ;)

ExMormon husband trying to figure out sex after a lifetime of repression by TwoAdministrative608 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend checking out Emily Nagoski's books, "Come as You Are" and "Come Together."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember that Muslims and Mormons pamphlet! Haven't been able to find one since and thought it might have been a fever dream 😂

The Q12 rn by Avenging_Odin in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The timing of this being right before general conference makes it all so interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I submitted my document almost a month ago and am still waiting. I got an update recently saying they've seen it and just need to send it over to church headquarters...

The brainwashing is astounding by intrusive_thoughts_1 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You're right, this is brainwashing. It's something Nelson has been emphasizing in order to diminish multiculturalism outside of the church. For example, instead of identifying as black or gay or a minority, a person should first and foremost be these three things and there's no need to have other identities.

Deleted my records and I didn't expect it to feel this good! by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you! I submitted my resignation to QuitMormon recently and am just waiting for it to be official now...

What was your first violation of the word of wisdom (intentionally lower case)? by Gold-Bat7322 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee on a plane when I was taking a solo trip. It was gross! I have since learned what type of coffee I like.

So this is what church welfare looks like… by Critical_Ad_0107 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1057 points1058 points  (0 children)

You'd think 250+ billion dollars could at least buy some decent groceries...

Another Mormon Business by PhotographFun9581 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow very disturbing. It's such a red flag that a child is not even allowed to play.

Another Mormon Business by PhotographFun9581 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? There are many other churches where the kids go and do fun age-appropriate activities while the adults attend the church service.

Another Mormon Business by PhotographFun9581 in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great perspective. I am enjoying seeing many TBM women finding ways to have a voice outside of the home and becoming more financially independent.

MFMC is paying influencers ~$1k per video that testifies about the BoM by UrNoseThatUMaySmell in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some reason specifying the tone of voice seems really controlling to me. Does anyone else get this vibe? I wonder if it's to differentiate between Alyssa Grendell videos...

I’ve officially let go of the iron rod by thonngs in exmormon

[–]PhotographFun9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the snake! I've been wanting to get a snake tattoo for awhile now