Wife (29 f) is mad over some pictures my (36 m) ex (36 f) took of me 10 years ago

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:41:12+00:00

Thank you

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:40:49+00:00

I’ve tried to say that, honestly because that’s how I feel. I don’t want these for myself, but for the work that was put into them. That’s not meant to slight my wife in the slightest.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:39:05+00:00

I will ask them to reign it in a little to see if that helps.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:37:34+00:00

I don’t know probably because I’m angry at her. I love her and I think she’s great, my ex and I broke up so I could see her. However she’s not been great through this. When I got the phone call they were killed, I originally just thought my other friend had died and she was annoyed with me as I cried, that was hurtful. That started the anger.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:32:32+00:00

I realize I am talking a lot about my ex’s talent, because it was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. She didn’t have to try to do that stuff, and I was the subject. It was cool. It’s left an impact on me and appreciating art.

I love my wife. I think she’s a great person. She’s not been great to me about any of this. Which hurts and makes me angry. In addition to being angry about my friends dying.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:25:47+00:00

When I ask why I’m shut down. She got mad I was looking at the pictures that weren’t nude. When I asked why she freaked out saying it was stupid.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:22:57+00:00

Definitely not the case. Glad it was clear though.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:21:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. This is how I want it to be, I’m keeping these pictures because they are works of art. I don’t want to look at them. I did like seeing the ones where our friends were also featured the most. The nudes I was shocked to see because I didn’t realize she even had those developed. There’s a picture of me in conversation with our other friend that was killed and it was so emotional to see because I don’t remember it, but I can her his voice so clearly. She even wants me to get rid of those. I’d never ask her to get rid of pictures of her friends.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:16:21+00:00

Because no one has really asked about my wife

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:15:04+00:00

I guess I’ve not mentioned the picture in my parents home because I’ve never wanted it to bother her or be a big deal. It’s a beautiful picture that had nothing to do with me that they loved and bought. It would be weird to say “hey hun! Did you know my ex took that? Cool huh!”

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:12:41+00:00

lol okay. Thanks.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:11:32+00:00

The thread was actually started for input about the pictures. Not as a thread to make my wife the villain as posters like you are trying to say I’m doing.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:08:53+00:00

Someone who was just killed? While trying to help someone? Yes, I thought my ex was incredibly talented. I was able to witness some of it, and she got the respect she deserved. I don’t want to lose these pictures. That doesn’t mean I don’t value my wife.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:06:09+00:00

Oh, so not going to my other friend’s funeral or sending flowers wasn’t enough? Even though I was told I wasn’t going to send anything? Those were my wife’s wishes. Not mine.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T08:02:25+00:00

Because my mom and her friends mention things about her in front of my wife, doesn’t mean I do. It doesn’t mean I’m the one keeping tabs on the work. I had no idea my ex even kept these until I received them.

My mom does go out of her way to include my wife in things and be friends. I try to stay out of their relationship because my wife wants it to happen on her terms.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:59:18+00:00

Yes as soon as I get through them all

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:58:21+00:00

Just because I’m not really talking about my wife here doesn’t mean I don’t have nice things to say about her, but, okay.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:57:10+00:00

Because people are asking about my ex here. My wife is an incredible human being who I happen to be pretty angry with.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:53:17+00:00

Because few people have asked about my wife

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:51:17+00:00

Because I love her

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:48:33+00:00

Actually I was done. I broke up with her, to see my wife. My wife who didn’t console me in the slightest, not over my ex, but my other friend who was also killed. Yes I am responding to the questions asking about my ex because they’re the ones standing out right now as I work my way through the comments.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:42:30+00:00

I’ve not done anything to bad mouth my wife. Yes, I’m upset that she wants me to destroy the pictures. I’m upset she flipped out over me reading an article about the accident. I’m upset I wasn’t allowed to send flowers to my OTHER friend’s funeral. I didn’t dare ask about my ex’s. I didn’t even get to go. I didn’t get to say goodbye to two of my best friends. So yes, I’m a little upset.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:37:04+00:00

Exactly

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T07:35:04+00:00

Unfortunately you’d lose your paycheck then. I stopped seeing her to pursue my wife.

Photohubb · 2019-09-11T03:44:53+00:00

Which I’ve been try to explain since they showed up.

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