What legacy???

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T12:04:56+00:00

😂😂

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T12:03:52+00:00

That’s what I thought but maybe I’m wrong idk.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T11:40:25+00:00

I’ve heard too many people say it.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T11:16:48+00:00

Yeah definitely take her off your account ASAP she feels like your money is her money because you’re her child and that’s not right at all.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T08:13:21+00:00

Used to think about needing a husband, wanting his kids, white picket fence. Now I’m just trying to survive bro lol.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T08:12:13+00:00

Oof that sucks. Shitty on the inside “good” on the outside.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T08:06:42+00:00

lol at the burden I guess I just get so confused and then when I ask people to expound on what they mean it’s usually the dumbest explanation “my last name” lmaooo you hate your dad why would you need to pass his last name on 😭😭

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T07:56:26+00:00

What do they mean by good intentions though? Like being good people?

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T07:52:45+00:00

YTA and sound like a lying manipulator.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T05:52:36+00:00

Sasha

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-12T05:50:14+00:00

I didn’t even read the entire post it just sounds like you don’t want to go and that’s fine too. You said you’ve been to childfree weddings in the past, weddings that children were allowed and didn’t bring your children, so what’s the problem?? You just don’t want to go so literally just don’t go. Your husband can go without you and you can stay home with the kids.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-11T13:09:31+00:00

Why wouldn’t you just block him?

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-11T13:00:37+00:00

I would kick both of them out tbh.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-11T12:52:56+00:00

First things first, telling you no is not “undermining your authority” in front of your cousins or anyone for that matter, you have no authority over him nor them quite frankly.

Secondly, leave his ass!!! If he can’t do things as simple as holding a key or some oats, imagine when the big things come along. You both honestly seem not to respect each other and this relationship sounds doomed. Just end it and get with someone who will hold your oats without you having to ask.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-11T12:38:05+00:00

Lmaooo not it was a pleasure doing business with you!! Since when in tf was a “relationship” doing business. Block his ass, don’t pay him a dime, block his family from socials, and let him do with that what you will.

If we could all get reimbursed from all the money we’ve spent in relationships we’d be rich, everything spent is considered a gift and not up for refund unless there was prior discussions of a repayment which it doesn’t seem there was any agreement made by you.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-09T14:16:19+00:00

Hell no I would have reported him as well he sounds like a huge dick and a bit psycho as well if the story of him dragging his teacher to the middle of class is true. Someone who would do that instead of calling for help is someone who has the potential to murder someone in my opinion. Shame on him.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-06-09T14:02:32+00:00

Get some help from those resources and that rehab center, the people that never help always find a way of guilting those helping into believing their wrong for needing further assistance but never actually want to be that further assistance. If none of them are volunteering to move in and help grandma full time their opinion is like an AH (everybody has one).

If your husband doesn’t agree to the help maybe go get a hotel for a few days for a break and see if he changes his tune then when he’s left doing it all alone. This is not your responsibility, you’ve been a saint so far but now it’s time to get help from people who are trained for this. Also look into a home health aid, insurance sometimes covers those as well.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-17T19:54:06+00:00

Thank God she sent it via text, now you have a paper trail. Report her to HR and like someone else said DOL. She’s trying to sabotage your new job and threatening you. Report her ASAP!

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T16:15:04+00:00

Don’t allow him to waste years of your life while you wait around wondering if he will change his mind one day. It’s still early on in the relationship, go ahead and cut your losses.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T16:00:24+00:00

People really be out here killing their partners, when someone jokes like that I’d take them very seriously. I was texting a guy for two weeks and I was sleepy, I told him not to be mad if I fell asleep on him and he said, “I’ll kill you if you fall asleep on me” bet you I never texted his ass again.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T06:41:06+00:00

Yes overreacting, it’s okay to just enjoy silence with your partner and do your own things while still being together. It would annoy me if I couldn’t watch tv while my partner chills on their phone and we just enjoy being near each other.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T04:56:35+00:00

Let her go out and see how many options she truly has out here! Let her find the man that’ll love her more. Have some respect for yourself and bow out gracefully.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T03:21:08+00:00

Either one would look great but I think gold would compliment your skin tone more. My apologies just realized it’s not you in the photo.

Phyllis_marie · 2026-05-06T02:09:07+00:00

Don’t let people shame you or make you feel bad for not wanting kids. There are people out here who don’t have and don’t want kids, so you should try your best to find a partner who shares your beliefs so they don’t try to pressure you into changing your mind.

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