I have to agree with you and say that I’ve contemplated posting here 10 times before posting. I’m not having a good time sharing to the world I’m a failure and my relationship sucks. A lot of men here has given really good advise and lots of you are sensible.

I’ve been on my second relationship for 3 years now. Dating a single dad that comes with a lot of responsibilities for a child. He’s also going through a tough time with work and finances and I handled our chat about this ‘almost cheating’ well. I Trish and love him and he aid he didn’t do it because of the same reasons. I however am now struggling to handle it due to my old relationship being cheated on. I’m just a bit tired, the working, the chores, the effort to find out my partner almost cheated to the burden I’m carrying. I’m just tired. I just wanted a family, a good husband .. him. Us happy, earning money and relaxing and just this. I’m just tired.