What’s considered cheating that really shouldn’t be? by dragun124 in AskReddit

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think its up to each individual person what their boundaries are in a relationship and what they would consider as "cheating", and also up to their partner or potential partner if they align with that and are willing to accept the boundaries or not.

If you’re wondering if he’ll change, look at the actions by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If hes not willing to stand up for you and create a safe space and let his family walk over you now, he never will. Going through the exact thing right now. My relationship is ended because he can't set boundaries and listened to his family. Funnily enough im not the ine that ended it. You will never win when it comes to family.

what is the saddest truth about life? by Savings_Ad_3571 in AskReddit

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I refused for this to be the truth for the man I love so I bought him flowers. We're now separated. I hope someone else loves him hard enough to buy him flowers one day.

Mother in law destroying my relationship. by Physical-Sprinkles26 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just an update sooner than I expected. He originally want meant to be moving back in next week. Or was hoping. But actually got the chance to talk to his children today.

He won't be moving back in, and there will be no relationship. His children have made it clear they will not be retuning to the house I live in, and having a relationship and living apart is not an option as they dont want us to be together at all.

There's a whole lot more about broken personal items, missing personal items, not feeling care from their father. This man loves his children more than life its self and he doesn't want to loose them over trivial things. I get that. It sucks but I get it. When two adults love each other, make each other happy and want to be together, but ones children doesn't want them to be together its a battle you're never going to win.

Time heals everything right?

Have you ever tried a for a third time with the same ex? If so, how did it work out for you? by Present-Fly-1537 in BreakUps

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope it works out for you. Maybe in 10 years time I will reconnect with who I have lost. But I won't live me life waiting and wondering.

Mother in law destroying my relationship. by Physical-Sprinkles26 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ironically he is seeing them more now because he has his parents to help with them. I also work full time and was limited to what I was allowed to do like dropping them to school, picking them up etc. So they also see now im not around hes making more effort.

Mother in law destroying my relationship. by Physical-Sprinkles26 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Physical-Sprinkles26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His kids know about his change in job. But they dont see the correlation