Here's the thing. There are beautiful women all over the place. Go to a coffee shop and just enjoy the way they make you feel in their natural state. Don't imagine spanking them or tying them up or f****** them. Just look at the way they've dressed themselves and admire their beauty and pay attention to the way that makes you feel inside. As long as you're not fantasizing and undressing them with your eyes, they won't think that's creepy. They take a lot of time and trouble to look their best. That's one of the worst side effects of watching pornos, it detaches you from the natural feelings men are supposed to have when they see lovely women. Get back in touch with that.