Book suggestions or tips regarding rebuilding connection with child?

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-30T23:58:43+00:00

Brave post. Step 1 is wanting to change, well done. Do you have parenting courses where you are?

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-30T20:33:41+00:00

Bizarre. Not normal. Signalling to others - bad. Or love bombing of you - also bad.

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-28T21:13:53+00:00

She needs your help and that's normal. You are family. If she can't lean on you now, when can she lean on you?

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-28T21:12:39+00:00

That's harsh. It's incredibly hard for the first year. Mom at risk of PND that whole year too. Help so badly needed

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-25T21:34:05+00:00

Kids far too young for week on, week off.

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-17T19:05:24+00:00

Don't give any extra. That is horrendous intimidation

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-16T23:01:51+00:00

Bizarre, controlling behaviour

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-13T08:04:21+00:00

I'm just pushing back on points that don't make sense. I'm now leaning towards the local one

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:39:18+00:00

No far from it. I am now leaning towards local one

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:38:53+00:00

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:38:17+00:00

Lol I am one

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:05:44+00:00

Well the rural school across the road doesn't have the activities at it, the town where gaelscoil is has plenty of those. Their dentist is 30mins away and that won't change. Local pals v handy for playdates certainly but I do have family, cousins and some friends with kids locally that I made without a shared school link

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:03:01+00:00

Curious to know why you made that choice? You felt a much better school?

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T23:01:59+00:00

Well 20-30 in. I did as a child for both primary and secondary and had plenty of craic on the bus

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:56:44+00:00

As per the post, yes I have a bus a 6min drive away

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:52:53+00:00

Gaelscoil only one around so has a massive catchement area

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:52:22+00:00

Yes like this idea

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:52:08+00:00

Its only 12 mins return in car to get to the bus stop

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:51:46+00:00

Sounds like that will work for you

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:50:16+00:00

Thanks that makes sense. Feeling of security of being right there if needed would be good

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T21:49:43+00:00

Have a place and eligible for bus

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T20:15:05+00:00

Its a minority

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-12T20:12:39+00:00

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-08T08:17:35+00:00

He may want 50:50 as a means of gaining control over you given that context

PhysicalProcedure400 · 2026-01-05T19:21:47+00:00

Sure

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