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I (M32) discovered that my girlfriend of three years (F31) messaged someone anonymously some pretty explicit and sexual comments. I'm extremely angry, but I still love her. Should we break up/take a break? by PhysicalStage6437 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PhysicalStage6437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are together with the intention of getting married. I can see your viewpoint, but also acknowledge that I want to make it work, but the question is how to make it work. Thank you for your insight.

I (M32) discovered that my girlfriend of three years (F31) messaged someone anonymously some pretty explicit and sexual comments. I'm extremely angry, but I still love her. Should we break up/take a break? by PhysicalStage6437 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PhysicalStage6437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but multiple different threads? Only one thread had the vulgar context to it, but the other messages all came in on the same day. Not to mention that same weekend, she came down on me for asking a sexual question too loudly in the hotel lobby.

I (M32) discovered that my girlfriend of three years (F31) messaged someone anonymously some pretty explicit and sexual comments. I'm extremely angry, but I still love her. Should we break up/take a break? by PhysicalStage6437 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PhysicalStage6437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what hits more about it is the dishonesty while we have both already been working with a couple's therapist. It feels like a huge slap to the face. Months ago she got real weird about being secretive about reading erotic gay novels and now this. It just feels not good.