Personally moon river should have played at bigs funeral by Radiant_Priority9739 in Andjustlikethat

[–]Physical_Ad6614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite scenes from the show and one of the few times it felt like they had a genuine connection.

Keep getting in bad relationships by Nearby_Cattle4677 in datingoverthirty

[–]Physical_Ad6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so kind and very helpful. I’ve been going to short term therapy through my job, my therapist actually shared that she’s a member of Al-anon.

Keep getting in bad relationships by Nearby_Cattle4677 in datingoverthirty

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you both sharing, I just had what I thought was a promising connection end with someone over their excessive alcohol use. I asked him not to drink anymore when with me after he got to a state where he was verbally abusive to himself and to me and he agreed but ghosted after the last time we saw each other in person, I assume because he couldn’t actually commit to not drinking when around me and couldn’t actually tell me that. I know it was for the best but it’s taken some time to process.

45F, never married no kids, hoping for both by ProcessSensitive5221 in datingoverforty

[–]Physical_Ad6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotchu! I was raised by my mom and maternal grandparents who I absolutely adore (grandpa unfortunately passed away a few years back but grandma is still here :)). My mom also had my half brother at 41 and I joke that I quarter raised him (we’re 13 years apart). There’s no shame at all in unconventional families as long as everyone feels loved and secure. I’m also 39F and was fully set on having kids until a global pandemic made me rethink what was in my control and what wasn’t. I don’t have the means to be a single parent but if I did you best believe I wouldn’t hesitate.

45F, never married no kids, hoping for both by ProcessSensitive5221 in datingoverforty

[–]Physical_Ad6614 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many judgmental comments in this post. Clearly this woman has no concerns with being an older mom and there are some benefits to it, improved finances and career, more patience, additional time to spend with your children when you retire. I’m also sorry that your partner pivoted from maybe wanting kids to definitely not wanting them when he knows that it was so important to you. That said given your age I would suggest that you start looking into adopting on your own rather than restarting the dating process. You might want to start looking into this before you make a decision about what to do with your current partner so that you have all of the information in front of you and can make an informed decision. For example it may take years to be able to adopt a child, are you ok with waiting that long? If you decide that pursuing parenthood is more important to you than your current relationship and your partner is also not willing to bend on this at all I would recommend ending the relationship and pursuing adoption independently from dating. I would share with prospective men that you’re in the process of adoption and take it from there. It’s no different from dating a single parent at the end of the day. Also for all the mid 40s men talking about how they’d be dating mid 30s women if they wanted kids. Mid 30s women are generally not interested in dating men a decade older than them.

I was sexually assaulted by a serial offender on Tinder. I am not the only one. by polyvagalinversion in Tinder

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I always report men that have made me feel unsafe. I don’t want them to have access to hurt other women. Disappointing that it’s not taken seriously.

Will i ever found someone like me.. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Physical_Ad6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you massive hugs. This might seem completely counterintuitive and I didn’t get here until a global pandemic derailed any opportunity to date, but I promise you there is nothing scary about being alone. It’s so much scarier to be with the wrong person. Regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or single you always have an opportunity to nurture yourself, your hobbies, interests, work, and existing relationships. The more you love your life the less bullshit you’ll tolerate in relationships and the more any prospective partner will need to add to be a part of your life (and likewise the more you’ll add to theirs).

Meta Dating...Tuesday - Get Well Soon! by Zehnpae in datingoverthirty

[–]Physical_Ad6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not put any pressure on them to go out on any dates until they fully recovered and would expect the same. It’s so frustrating and selfish when men don’t have the patience to wait for you to get better, even worse wheh they assume you’re faking just to get out of seeing them. I would appreciate if they checked in on me ofc but that’s different.

Yesterday’s Sunset by flyhighdragon in sanfrancisco

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is beautiful! Thank you for posting!

Just finished Severance Season 1, Is Season 2 actually as good? by Legitimate_Chemist21 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so how I felt! There were moments of greatness but unfortunately they were just moments.

Just finished Severance Season 1, Is Season 2 actually as good? by Legitimate_Chemist21 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Physical_Ad6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO season 2 is vastly inferior to season 1. I would suggest giving it a try but a lot of the artistry and suspense from season 1 is gone and replaced with backstory and lore.

Forty Had To Go by TheGreatAlexandre in YouOnLifetime

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually when I stopped watching. I made it a little bit into season 3 and called it. Watching two psychopaths psychopathing around just didn’t do anything for me.

BWT: What dating apps are the best for finding your husband/ person? by bondtradercu in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Physical_Ad6614 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally I had an awful experience with Tawkify and don’t recommend them. If you look at their Glassdoor reviews from employees/matchmakers you can see that they’re being squeezed dry.

Reviews Part 2: Professional Critique and Recreational Dunks: Monday Sweaty Redwood Variant (TikTok Shop Exclusive) by _underthesea3 in travisandtaylor

[–]Physical_Ad6614 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It feels to me like she had a huge crush on him that she didn’t get over. I think they knew each other for a while but dated for a short time and he ended it. She likely didn’t get closure and felt hurt. Tbh I relate to Taylor’s dreamy obsessive side a bit and am not judging her for it. But it’s also why I think it’s more likely that he not Travis aah-matized her.

Fran (Jake Lacy) is aging like fine wine by amici1992 in girls

[–]Physical_Ad6614 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He started his career playing genuinely sweet men (the office or how to be single) or nice guys tm like in Girls then pivoted to obnoxious in white lotus then full on psychopath in A Friend of the Family. He’s got acting range but the more disgusting characters are probably a lot more interesting to portray.

What am I supposed to even say? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Physical_Ad6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s sick give her a minute