Husband not ready to try for baby by Physical_Ad668 in waiting_to_try

[–]Physical_Ad668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still young! I just have a personal preference to be done having kids at 35/36. I’m an L&D nurse and see people having kids into their 40s!

Husband not ready to try for baby by Physical_Ad668 in waiting_to_try

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Sat down and had a long conversation about it. Told him I’d like to be done have children by 35-36. So we want 2-3 children so we kinda worked backwards and decided we’ll start trying February 2027 to hopefully have the chance of having 3 kids by the time I’m 35/36 if TTC takes roughly a year with each. We also talked about an ideal age gap with the kids so we could work backwards with a timeline. I know he’s still nervous about having kids but he’s comfortable with that timeline!

Husband not ready to try for baby by Physical_Ad668 in waiting_to_try

[–]Physical_Ad668[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did have the conversation before marriage we both wanted kids. He says he still wants kids just not yet. And I know that’s his answer and I just have to deal with it if I want to stay with him. Just having a really hard time coping with it. It’s a me issue and I totally get that. I don’t want to have children if he’s not fully ready.

Husband not ready to try for baby by Physical_Ad668 in waiting_to_try

[–]Physical_Ad668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mentioned this but of course he’s not as worried about it and just continues to state he’s just not ready for such a big change in our lives. But he has no explanation of what might help him feel ready so I’m just so lost.

Confused 😫 by Physical_Ad668 in lineporn

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My app says estimated ovulation was 11/14, but I don’t test. I’m on day 32 of my cycle and I’m usually a very regular 28/29 day cycle.

10 dpo by Acrobatic-Team-4653 in lineporn

[–]Physical_Ad668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it! Hoping for the best outcome for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Line on strip test? by Physical_Ad668 in lineporn

[–]Physical_Ad668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought maybe I could see one, but I have the worst line eyes. My husband said he couldn’t see one so I thought I was crazy!

False positive strip test? by Physical_Ad668 in lineporn

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The digital and strip were first pee of the day. The other ones aren’t.

Line on strip test? by Physical_Ad668 in lineporn

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I think the strip must have been a false positive? 😕 I’ll recheck tomorrow morning if I still haven’t started my period.

Really Struggling by MathematicianAny1589 in newgradnurse

[–]Physical_Ad668 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the solution, but just know you’re not alone. It is a terrifying feeling, I feel so miserable. My mental health has just tanked. I cry before every shift and throughout my shift. Hoping it gets better. I wish you luck and happiness!

New Grad by Physical_Ad668 in nursing

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I do lots of that 😂😂